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July and me!

Hey everyone how’s it going?

I’m back again today with blog post about the month of July!

June was a month of awakening and July for me is a month of rebuilding my footing.

From repaying my debt to budgeting for the month and learning how to tackle one problem after another, some where along the days I’ve become stronger.

Though July isn’t a month of dramatic breakthroughs for me, some where along the days I’m trying to build something tangible as each days pass by.

I’ve spent years carrying disappointment, questioning my existence, relationships that didn’t become what I quietly hoped for, things not working in my favour, financial instability, debts piling up one after another,wondering why my life is stagnant when everyone else’s is moving ahead?

June was a month when I questioned myself but July seems to change my perspective towards, “Why me?” to “ How can I control these situations?”

I want my July to look like this:

  1. Health: I’ve seen to gain a bit of weight over these days and now I’m focusing on shedding about a kg or two. I’ve focused more on cutting down sugar and burning at least about 300 calories a day. I actively walk during morning and evening to achieve this.
  2. Work: I feel like I’m not meant for a monogamous routine . Though not everyday is an ideal day at work I’m trying to show up. I might not like what I’m doing but it provides a structure for my long term plan.
  3. Money: I’m still sticking to my budget. I’ve clearly stopped spending my money on weekly pleasures and hung over nights. I’ve started cutting down on things that are not needed.July seems to be a month where I actually take my habits seriously.
  4. Relationships: I’m actively trying to give my energy to people and situation that are deserving. July seems to be a groundbreaking month where I become clearer about what and who will I accept.

Of course I still feel nostalgic and overwhelmed every other day. I still have my emotions all around the place but I have the power to control myself and my thoughts. Whenever I feel down I try to remind myself that my worth is not measured by how quickly my life was moving.

My deepest goal in life is not loud flashy luxury or success but in having my sense of inner peace. I want to feel content knowing that I built a life that I always imagined.

I believe that July would bring me moments of unexpected joy, an unplanned conversation, a break from every day hustle or simply a day when my life feels lighter than before.

“I want to lie down in the grass looking up at the stars with nothing to worry about.”✨

Me time 🌸

With love

–Senorita 💕

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June: The month I stopped looking away…

Hello everyone how’s it going?

It’s literally the 6th month of the year and summer is at it’s peak.

The first half of the year is over and we are only left with the rest of the 6 months. June didn’t come in grand for me. No fireworks, no dramatic love story, no big announcements. It came quietly and with it came things far more necessary: Honesty.

Life has never been easy for me or anyone. I try to solve a problem and the next one comes knocking on my door.

Sometimes it’s just too heavy for me to carry it all together at once. I get overwhelmed, anxious, I start questioning my existence. Lord, Why always me?

These 30 years of my life has never been a smooth sailing for me. I lost my loved ones, was betrayed by people I trusted, people took advantage of me, took my presence in their life for granted.I’ve seen lots of ups and downs and I know that deep down my heart I have scars, traumas, that come to surface when I’m all alone at night . When the world sleeps, I stay awake with what ifs and could haves?

The month of June has not been favourable for me, my things are not going smoothly. I feel like I’m lost somewhere not knowing what to do next?Every year I reminded myself that things would change but everything remained the same.

Despite all these, there is a tiny hope inside my heart that tells me, Everything will be okay.

Patience has always been my virtue.

So here are a list of things that I’ve learnt in the month of June:

  1. It’s you vs the world. We are living in a very selfish world and people only give as long as what you’re putting up for them.
  2. Don’t give attention to things that are not gonna be useful for you in the long run. You have to learn to be calculative . See the pros and cons of situation before you invest your energy on them.
  3. Emotions and feelings are fleeting. Nothing in the world is going to last forever. Learn to enjoy the moment as long as you are there. You never know how long are they gonna last.
  4. Save, save and save. Nothing in the world is for free. Money is everything. Earn well and use them to generate more income. The more money you have the more power you get.
  5. Sometimes it’s best to not know about things. Leave them for what they are . The more you try to dig them the further are you gonna get hurt.

I don’t know what the future has in stored for me. I don’t seem to have done anything great so far. When I look back in the days I feel that so many things shouldn’t have happened the way it should be. I feel I shouldn’t have crossed paths with certain people in my life, I think about so many things that I should have done it the right way.

But this June something changed inside me.

I have stopped forcing for answers anymore.

I have stopped chasing validation anymore.

I have no super power to control things and people. I can’t make somebody love me when all they want is a piece of me. I can’t make somebody pour out their attention to me when they themselves look for attention somewhere. I can’t stop people from leaving my life when it’s their choice to do so. I can’t keep making more money when every penny that comes to me slips away.

I can’t and I don’t care because as long as I am alive I will live my life to the fullest. I believe that God has something beautiful written and planned for me already. I know that some day everything will be alright. I know deep down that change doesn’t come through others it comes through the choices I make everyday.

And the mere thought of mine where I feel my life hasn’t progressed much itself is a small victory for me since it’s time for me to recognise my patterns and make sure I learn and grow from them.

Lastly, June isn’t the month of arrival for me. It’s a month of awakening and knowing that healing is always not beautiful. Progress doesn’t need to be loud .

Till then I just have to get going . Though days are hard and nights are lonely. I know that I have miles to go before I sleep.

One decision, one boundary , one day at a time.

Me vs the world

–Senorita 💕

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Half of May

Hey everyone! Hope you all are well!

We’ve come a long way to May seems like January was too far away. Days are getting pretty much longer and the weather here is pretty unpredictable.Sometimes it rains and some days are hotter. I get confused whether to wear a wind breaker or just a cotton T shirt while going out.

Well to be very honest May has not being mazing for me! It started quite like an ordinary day but there were few moments which are special to me and there were times this month when I cried myself to sleep.

Still I’m getting up going to work everyday watching my diet and of course burning calories by walking everyday.

ChatGPT has been my constant friend this month and yes overthinking and feeling drained has stuck to my to do list.

Yet here I am preaching you guys about to dos and nots this month. Well being delusional to point of getting it done has always been me.So, here I go what things did I learn in the past few weeks of May and what things am I looking forward to:

  1. Letting go of situations which is beyond my control: I am a human being and I accept the fact that I’m not perfect. I’m greedy, I’m jealous, I complain, I’m not wise enough but all these things sum up to being a human. I can’t control someone’s mind or emotion. I can’t figure out people based on how they present themselves to be. I can’t force somebody to love and respect me when all they see me as somebody and not someone special. So, the greatest thing I have been coping up these days is the fact that I can’t control things, I should learn to let them flow. If anything is meant for me it will find it’s way .Until then I should just surrender to the Universe and I know that good things are coming towards me. God never fails!
  2. Not over giving and over sharing : Generosity is fine but if something or someone is costing you your peace please stop! I have been telling you that meet people half as much as they meet you. Not every one deserves access to you. Being too available to anyone makes you lose your worth. Be it anyone, once somebody crosses their limit put them in their place.
  3. Being wise with money: Money money money! Everything revolves around money. If you have enough money everybody respects you but if you are in short of money very few will rush to help you.I’ve learnt my biggest lesson in all these years. Money is not the root of all evil but it is the source of all type of happiness. Don’t spend all your pay checks on instalments, vacations, buying clothes and accessories. Build yourself a secure future so that you don’t have to worry about a single penny.
  4. Letting myself relax: Not everything needs to be done at once. Take it easy! Chill! Your deadline can wait! Your excel sheets can wait !Don’t burn yourself out! Take some time out do things you enjoy, watch that drama, make that reel, visit your friends, don’t just do anything and just keep lying down in your bed. Your body is a temple so keep it clean and nourished. As long as you’re healthy and fine you can do whatever you want.
  5. Learning to enjoy my own company: A year ago I was the person who had to go out no matter what. But now, I seldom go out unless I feel like. I’ve stopped checking up on people who don’t give two shits about me! I’ve cut off people who were there just for the moment and no longer entertain their loneliness.I have rather made few connections that I would like to continue in terms of friendships. A few close friends are better than many useless ones.

Some people may like me and some don’t but I don’t care as long as I am me. I don’t like following the crowd neither do I like chasing after things . I’m good where I am and they’re good where they are.

Some me time 🫶🏻

Also, in all these things I’m grateful for my journey and the 30 years of my life has not been a smooth journey . I saw people, things, change and end.I’ve seen many things in life to which I can say has made me stronger.As the poem goes:

“ For men will come and men will go , but I go on forever”.

The Brook by Alfred lord Tennyson

With love

–Senorita 💕

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What April had in stored for me!

Hey guys! I’m back again with another blog post out today. I’ve been telling you that April is one of my favourite months of the year because I like the fiery and spontaneous moments that the energy of Aries the Ram offers me.

April started with just any other month with works and daily chores piled up for me.Yet, I knew deep within my heart that something good was coming up my way.

Here are the list of things that I learnt and would love to include in my day to day ahead and some things that I would forsake for my benefit.

  1. Living in the moment: I am a chronic over thinker but these past few days have taught me that not everything needs to be taken seriously. If something or someone is costing my peace and sanity then it’s not meant for me. I’ve stopped calculating outcomes for things and learnt to let things be.
  2. To be kinder: Not everybody has the capacity to understand people and situation for what they are. I’ve learnt to at least be kind and considerate to people and help them and be for them when I can. Not everything is about money, a few encouraging word and your presence can create miracles in their life.
  3. Stopped living for validation: I no longer care what people think about me . I’ve worked a lot on myself to not let people’s word and opinions have any sort of effect on me. I’ve learnt to appreciate life and people for how they are.
  4. Living life a little: Taking a day off when I don’t feel like working, not responding to my calls when I need a moment of peace, waking up a little late when it’s a long night, not doom scrolling until late at night.Taking trips when needed without caring about the price.All these little things have taught me that taking break is okay.
  5. Looking forward to May: I know for sure that there are lots of things to be dealt in the coming month of May and it might overwhelm me a little but yet there is a small voice inside me saying that I can handle them all and everything is gonna be okay.

I’ve learnt that life is too simple if we just let it flow. Remember that nothing is permanent in life. Everything is temporary and in these fleeting moments of ups and downs stay true to yourself and never let the circumstances bring you down.

You are precious and one of a kind.Stop being hard on yourself and start living a little.

“The pain you have been feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming.”

Romans 8:18

With this I’m signing off until next time.

With love

–Senorita 🩵

Some me time 🤳
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Things that I’m learning in my 30s!

Hello everyone!! How’s it going? March seems to never end! Is it just me? Or do you guys also feel the same?

So many things going on around the world! The world is in chaos with LPG and fuel shortages going around in my country.

But things have never been the same since 2020! I can’t seem to figure it out but the economy has just become different . Everybody is earning but yet nobody is able to save!

Also, today I’m feeling an urge to go back into the times when I was 20 and figuring it out!How carefree was I? How different things were!I have no idea how long has it been and suddenly I’m in my thirties now!

There are things that I wish I could have done in my 20s but I can’t change it and the least I can do is learn to live with it! But my 30s are teaching me better and below are the things that I’m slowly but steadily learning so that I can make my 30s better.

  1. A tight but genuine friend circle: I have always been a loner since my childhood. Maybe because my childhood was different from others of my age.Having lost my father at the tender age of 12 and seeing my family go through hardships, I excelled academically and somewhere thought that I had to look upon myself.But, as the days passed , I started socialising and became quite socially active, but here I am in my 30 telling you guys that having a good set of friend is really important, only the true ones stay with you till the end. If you have one then never let them go.
  2. Saving money is important: In this society, nothing is important than money! Money gives you the respect and freedom to do whatever you want. If you’re just earning and not saving for yourself then all your hard work goes to vain. Learn to stick with your budget. Showing off to people just to be cool and socially accepted drains your energy and your wallet.Invest on yourself and your future.
  3. Being choosy with your energy: This is very important. If you give access to people who don’t even deserve your time you loose your worth. Remember why diamonds are precious.Being readily available for half hearted lovers, selfish friends, toxic environments, people who make you question your worth, who make you believe that you are not pretty enough, not rich enough, don’t have a place in your world! Protect your energy and peace at all costs.
  4. Limiting social media consumption : Yes, time and again social media has raised concern about self worth, comparison, subtle depression in humans. Why wouldn’t one be? Because every time you scroll, you come across a post where someone is travelling somewhere, getting married to someone, giving birth, buying something expensive, driving a fancy car, showing their accomplishments, telling you what to wear and what to apply for that ‘it’ factor! Not only that there are reels about wars, astrology, your numerology, manifestation, some trending videos and what not! everything a scroll away! Your mind gets over stimulated and makes you overly anxious. That is why you should be selective about what things to feed to your brain.
  5. Everyone has their own timelines: Now coming to this I wanna say that we all have different stories in our lives. We all are different. We have different destinies and purposes in lives. Maybe Jack was born to live an average life despite he was born into a rich family and Tom was meant have a luxurious life though he was born in the streets.I feel like God has already planned what’s the next timeline in our lives. Don’t compare your lives with the flawlessly curated lifestyle we see on social media because behind that there is always a story.

Lastly, be grateful and thankful for what you have right now because I assure you that there are people who wish they had your life! Comparison kills joy! Complaining kills peace! Over thinking kills moment! Learn to wait patiently! Boring is happening! Time is money! Slow evenings are better than fast paced ones!

Some me time

With love

–Senorita 💛

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We all are a Punch at heart 🦧🐒

Hello everyone! Happy Tuesday! I hope the year of the Fire Horse is treating you good so far.

Our year of 2026 started with animals teaching us about life be the nihilist penguin or the cute Punch.

Animals have been far more intelligent in terms of displaying acts of kindness, affection and loyalty.

A fury friend wagging it’s tail when we reach home after hours of slogging hard and a feline meowing at us complaining about where we’ve been throughout the day makes our too busy and too hard life a little better.

Well I think animals make our existence worthwhile. I’ve always found a sense of happiness and warmth when they approach me.

Now, since scrolling these days have been too gruesome and draining due to some elites acting and indulging on inhuman activities on the Epstein Files, a cute baby monkey seeking comfort and belonging on an orange Plushie seems like a world isn’t too bad at all.

What I’ve realised through this is that the world isn’t fair all time. We are humans with Red and White Blood Cells, two eyes, one nose and a heart that pumps the same red blood through for survival yet we are separated by races, religion, caste, creed, the colour of our skin, community and etc and etc.

We didn’t come to this earth thinking that I’ll be a Muslim or a Hindu or American or Afghan.We were labelled this and that by the society the instant we were born into.

We didn’t determine the amount of pain and happiness we would go through in this life when we were born nor did we choose our names and surnames.

Yet here we are with a certain sense of pride and prejudice because we belong to a certain country or race and because we are Homo sapiens and not animals.

Also, if I keep babbling about fairness and equality it’ll take ages.Just like Punch was disowned by the other monkeys and bullied for not having someone he can call his own we will be bullied and trampled upon if we don’t find our sense of belonging.

We ourselves make fun of people who eat alone at the table, have no friends and don’t talk much.Yet, when it comes to a monkey everybody is suddenly being kind and considerate.

How better our planet Earth would be if everybody was kind to the smallest being?!I would love to live in the world where there would be food for every hungry person, a shelter for all the homeless, enough money for everyone that would stop them from begging for alms.No politics over religion and caste, no dispute between nations.

Yet what I feel is all that we crave is a sense of belonging.Why do guys cheat? Why do married people commit adultery? Why do girls seek for material pleasure is all for the same thing. We need validation to feel like we belong somewhere.

Just like the zoo keeper handed him an orange plushie to comfort him we too need something to lean on be it the fancy car you drive in, the exotic places you visit, the 10k followers you have on social media or the girl who listens to your ranting when your world is falling apart.

Now ever since he got the Plushie he has been inseparable from it, he carries it, sleeps on it and now he has been making friends with the other monkeys.So basically, inorder to be accepted you have to lean on to something a belief or a person because loneliness kills.

Not being accepted, mocked at bullied for sucks.People telling you that you are not enough, discarding you like trash like you are nothing hurts.Taking your kindness and generosity for granted hurts.Not including you because you’re different hurts.

But in this journey of life where you’re segregating between good and bad and when you don’t know where you belong if God hands you an orange plushie you’re lucky.

Someone who listened to you, supported you,paid your bills,didn’t give up on you, believed and trusted you when the world gave up on you.

Never let that Plushie go, hold on to, carry it everywhere you go, appreciate it because when the world was against you, you held on it because all you wanted was to survive and feel chosen and appreciated.

God may hand you different Plushies in life but the one which you had when you were down can never measure to them.

There’s a saying that says, “ what we give doesn’t always return but what we give is always what we are”.

Some me time

Survival comes first.Don’t quit!

With love

–Senorita 💕

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That don’t kill you make you stronger!

Hello everyone! We’ve drawn towards the end of January 2026! Time just seems to fly by so quickly. We’re now stepping into the year of fire Horse as steadily as possible.

There’s still few days left for the year of the Snake to end and we’ll it’s teaching us to shed our old layers and fully let go of the older versions of ourselves.I’m excited for the new month to start as I’m looking forward towards the fiery and spontaneous months ahead.

Routine bores me a lot. I’m never the type to dwell on the same things for a long time. I like changes, I like uncertainty, I like vagueness. No matter whatever is there for me in the future, I for certain know that I’ll enjoy every moment of it.

Time has taught me resilience and patience.It has taught me that every thing comes naturally to you when it’s the right time.Nothing can be forced out of life. All you’ve got to do is keep growing and learning so that when the things you’ve always wanted comes to you , you know it’s value and embrace it wholeheartedly.

We can never erase or change our pasts , yes, sometimes it haunts you, makes you toss and turn the whole night, keeps on knocking you when you think you’ve moved on and yes, sometimes our chests become so tight that we can hardly breathe. Still, we look towards a happy ending and a bright day and remind ourselves that everything shall pass.There are things that are unknown to us, there are people out there waiting to cross our paths , there are things that will come our way when we least expect it happen, there are places yet left for us to visit and make beautiful memories.

These little things keep me going when I feel like the going is getting tough for me also recently, the internet is flooded with videos of an emperor penguin leaving it’s group and venturing towards the mountains in Antarctica and people have been widely debating it’s choice some citing him as a nihilist penguin but for me I feel he’s seeking for something more profound ,I feel empathy and sadness watching the penguin walk away and casting the final glance back to his safety and comfort knowing that he’ll be going forever with no intention of coming back.He’s not sure what lies ahead in his path and still chose to take that one decision that changed his life forever.

I’m very impressed and fascinated by this act of an animal and yet we are humans with full control over our minds and actions and yet we dread to take that leap of faith, that different action, that road which is diverged into woods thinking that comfort and safety is all that matters to us. Life is beyond that, life is beyond materialism, life is beyond a simple man’s comprehension.There is so much beauty in knowing about the unknown, embracing calmness in chaos, knowing that something worth your time and energy is out there somewhere when you decide to take that one action that you always wanted to take.

As February comes I’m looking forward to the unknown, trying to take actions towards my goal, trying to step a little out of my comfort zone, trying to be a bit kinder, a little wiser and stronger because what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!

With love

–Senorita 💕

Some me time💕

Be the penguin 🐧 picture source: Google
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One day to 2026!

Hello my lovely people! I hope everyone is doing well.As you all know that 2025 is ending within a day! and I can’t feel anything more than nostalgia at this moment. So many sane and insane things happened to me this year. I cried, I laughed, I smiled, I cursed, I sang , I danced , I met new people and forsake connections that never helped me to grow.

I’ve always been the one to look towards good things in life and never the one to contemplate over spilled milk.

This year has been overwhelming and underwhelming at the same time.Above all this I can never forget to be grateful for every single moment that I’m alive whether good or bad.

I’m healthy, mentally strong and living my life the way I want to and what more can I ask for!

Here are the list of things that I’ve learned this year so far:

1.Stepping out of my Comfort Zone: I’ve always been the one to negotiate between good and bad even before I initiate anything. But this year I’ve learnt to embrace the unexpected and it has led me to great ventures and connections that really helped me to shape my reality.

2.Seeing beyond the facade: I’ve finally learned to see people for who they are and not what I want them to be. I’ve learnt that some things can never be replaced and some things can never be corrected.So I just let things be what they are and never try to mould people the way I want them to be.As we are humans and humans make mistake and we learn and grow through the process.

3. It’s safe to be you: Not every time do we need to be perfect and flawless.It’s okay to be just yourself. Your quirky habits, edgy style,your imperfections , your misaligned teeth, your like and dislike make you who you are. Don’t let anyone dim your shine.Don’t let anyone tell or make you feel small. You are one of a kind and no body can ever be you.

4. Learning from your mistakes: Time and again I’ve been telling you that mistakes are a part of your journey and learning from them and growing and evolving is upto you.Don’t let it affect you and always think that there’s always something better and greater out there for you.

5.Starting 2026 with a positive mindset: 364 days and you still made it to the last. Think about the people who couldn’t make it to this day.Think about the families who lost someone precious to them this year and wish that they would be here today with them. The feeling itself is so devastating that I can’t comprehend. So, let’s all be thankful that we are here and getting to see this day with you our own eyes.So, whatever happened today in 2025 will not be shaping your 2026. Let your New Year be the best version of yourself.

Lastly, all I want to say is that be grateful for all the things either good or bad that happened in 2025 and look towards the amazing things that are yet to come your way in 2026!

Wishing everyone a wonderful 2026 ahead!

May the year of fire horse be passionate and exciting for everyone of you!

With love

–Senorita 💕

Bye 2025!
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Endings & Beginnings!

Hey everyone! It’s Halloween season here!We’ve already made it to November! We just have one more month left for 2026 and I’m anticipating great things to come my way!

It was like January came and all the other months just faded away with a blink of an eye!I have been thinking why is everything moving too quickly? Days turn to weeks and weeks to months and months to years and here I am just a bit old but with still a very young heart! ❤️

Also, I just turned 30 this September! Yeah, I know too old and nope, I’m not married , haven’t found the one yet, and still learning and growing my way to adulthood.

I love the final months of the year because it’s when I can really analyse my previous months . I like to think about all the things that I’ve accomplished whether big or small and all the things that I’ve done impulsively. This makes me realise about so many things that I should be doing and shouldn’t be doing.

The one thing that I’m really proud of myself is the fact that I don’t let things affect me anymore. I’ve come to a point where I stop blaming people or things and rather look into myself and the parts of me that gave consent to that.

I’ve had my fair share of guilts towards the previous months of the year 2025 and how I wish I would have done things differently but here I’m in the 11th month realising that whatever happened was a part of my destiny and I learnt my lesson and dare not to repeat those things again.

There’s only one month left for 2025 to end and I’ve already mentally started to visualise my 2026 from this time onwards.

Here are the list of things I’m planning to do this November so that my final days of 2025 would turn out to be good.

1 Ending procrastination: I’m too lazy to even start a thing and before starting anything I love daydreaming about the pros and cons. I’ve decided to end my laziness right this month and actually step ahead towards what I’ve wanted to do for so long.

2. Beginning a side hustle: I’ve been trying to start a small business for so long but all on my head. This time I’m really going to give it a go. I don’t wanna start something just for my profit but something that can really uplift and motivate others.

3. Ending my frequent party girl days: I’ve stopped going to pubs and clubs every opportunity I got not because I don’t enjoy it but because I don’t want to be at all the places all the time. What I’ve learnt is privacy is power.People can’t spoil things that they don’t know about.I would rather spend my evenings with meaning conversations with people who actually have my back than getting dressed out and having fun for escapism.

4. Beginning mindful practices: I meditate and journal every other day because it helps me to calm down. I’ve started blogging because of the same reason. Writing makes me feel at ease.I take a second to be grateful for everything I have, for my body, my job, my health, my life , my family and remind myself what a wonderful thing is to be alive.

5. Ending repetitive cycles: Time and again I find myself stuck with the same kind of situation and tried to break free of it but barely managed. This time I’m ending the version of me who tolerated all the things and stand firm on my ground. I’ve been learning to make boundaries and stick with that. If I trace a faint sign of effortlessness from the other party I’m gone without a trace. Money management, time management, energy and frequency are the things that I’m working on.

Because at the end you attract what you are.

I truly hope that November the season of Scorpio ♏️ would bring great transformation into your life but only for the better. I wish you all could figure out what things need to end and what new beginnings need to start in your life.✨💕🫶🏻

Some me time 💕

-with love

–Senorita 💕

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Shed the old skin this October!

Hey everyone! Happy holidays!!

It’s festive season here in India and there’s joy and laughter all around. I can’t believe we’ve made it to October so soon.This is my favourite season of the year. It’s officially fall/autumn season here.

I love the warm sun rays and the shedding trees preparing for new leaves for the spring next year.I love the hustle and bustle of people around buying new clothes and accessories for the festive season. It’s all so nice and makes me feel good about the month.

I just turned 30 this September and I’m no longer in my 20s.🥹Earlier, I used to think that turning 30 would be dreadful and I would marry someone and start my own family by the time I reached 30, but, here I am still figuring about my life in my 30, still enjoying my single hood and embracing my independence.

I guess life has all things planned for us.All we need to do is be patient and wait for things to happen at the right time.

Since, it’s already the 10th month of the year 2025, it’s still not too late to do things that you wanted to do in the beginning of the year.

Here are the list of things that I’m looking forward to in the month of October:

  1. Embracing independence and learning to take care of my body and mind.
  2. Letting go of lifestyle and habits that drain me and my pocket.
  3. Saving at least 20% of my monthly income for long term plan and other 10% for my emergency fund.
  4. Investing on assets like Gold over liabilities like an expensive accessory.
  5. Going out only when I feel like it and not because somebody wants me there.
  6. Avoiding too much of scrolling on internet and instead read books that motivates me.
  7. Practising gratitude everyday and journaling whenever I feel like it.
  8. Deep cleaning my private and work spaces every once in a week and practice aura cleansing rituals.
  9. Not letting things affect me and learning to see positively in overwhelming situations.
  10. Last but not the least, I need to change my sleeping pattern, I’m looking forward to getting up early and going to bed early.

So, I’m basically looking towards the brighter side of life inculcating positive rituals and practices in my day to day life.

I really want to shed my old skin this October onwards and pave ways for a better life these coming months.

Wishing everyone a Happy Dussehra and Diwali in advance!

Me on my birthday 🎉

With love

–Senorita 💕