Hello everyone!! How’s it going? March seems to never end! Is it just me? Or do you guys also feel the same?
So many things going on around the world! The world is in chaos with LPG and fuel shortages going around in my country.
But things have never been the same since 2020! I can’t seem to figure it out but the economy has just become different . Everybody is earning but yet nobody is able to save!
Also, today I’m feeling an urge to go back into the times when I was 20 and figuring it out!How carefree was I? How different things were!I have no idea how long has it been and suddenly I’m in my thirties now!
There are things that I wish I could have done in my 20s but I can’t change it and the least I can do is learn to live with it! But my 30s are teaching me better and below are the things that I’m slowly but steadily learning so that I can make my 30s better.
- A tight but genuine friend circle: I have always been a loner since my childhood. Maybe because my childhood was different from others of my age.Having lost my father at the tender age of 12 and seeing my family go through hardships, I excelled academically and somewhere thought that I had to look upon myself.But, as the days passed , I started socialising and became quite socially active, but here I am in my 30 telling you guys that having a good set of friend is really important, only the true ones stay with you till the end. If you have one then never let them go.
- Saving money is important: In this society, nothing is important than money! Money gives you the respect and freedom to do whatever you want. If you’re just earning and not saving for yourself then all your hard work goes to vain. Learn to stick with your budget. Showing off to people just to be cool and socially accepted drains your energy and your wallet.Invest on yourself and your future.
- Being choosy with your energy: This is very important. If you give access to people who don’t even deserve your time you loose your worth. Remember why diamonds are precious.Being readily available for half hearted lovers, selfish friends, toxic environments, people who make you question your worth, who make you believe that you are not pretty enough, not rich enough, don’t have a place in your world! Protect your energy and peace at all costs.
- Limiting social media consumption : Yes, time and again social media has raised concern about self worth, comparison, subtle depression in humans. Why wouldn’t one be? Because every time you scroll, you come across a post where someone is travelling somewhere, getting married to someone, giving birth, buying something expensive, driving a fancy car, showing their accomplishments, telling you what to wear and what to apply for that ‘it’ factor! Not only that there are reels about wars, astrology, your numerology, manifestation, some trending videos and what not! everything a scroll away! Your mind gets over stimulated and makes you overly anxious. That is why you should be selective about what things to feed to your brain.
- Everyone has their own timeless: Now coming to this I wanna say that we all have different stories in our lives. We all are different. We have different destinies and purposes in lives. Maybe Jack was born to live an average life despite he was born into a rich family and Tom was meant have a luxurious life though he was born in the streets.I feel like God has already planned what’s the next timeline in our lives. Don’t compare your lives with the flawlessly curated lifestyle we see on social media because behind that there is always a story.
Lastly, be grateful and thankful for what you have right now because I assure you that there are people who wish they had your life! Comparison kills joy! Complaining kills peace! Over thinking kills moment! Learn to wait patiently! Boring is happening! Time is money! Slow evenings are better than fast paced ones!

With love
–Senorita 💛









