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June: The month I stopped looking away…

Hello everyone how’s it going?

It’s literally the 6th month of the year and summer is at it’s peak.

The first half of the year is over and we are only left with the rest of the 6 months. June didn’t come in grand for me. No fireworks, no dramatic love story, no big announcements. It came quietly and with it came things far more necessary: Honesty.

Life has never been easy for me or anyone. I try to solve a problem and the next one comes knocking on my door.

Sometimes it’s just too heavy for me to carry it all together at once. I get overwhelmed, anxious, I start questioning my existence. Lord, Why always me?

These 30 years of my life has never been a smooth sailing for me. I lost my loved ones, was betrayed by people I trusted, people took advantage of me, took my presence in their life for granted.I’ve seen lots of ups and downs and I know that deep down my heart I have scars, traumas, that come to surface when I’m all alone at night . When the world sleeps, I stay awake with what ifs and could haves?

The month of June has not been favourable for me, my things are not going smoothly. I feel like I’m lost somewhere not knowing what to do next?Every year I reminded myself that things would change but everything remained the same.

Despite all these, there is a tiny hope inside my heart that tells me, Everything will be okay.

Patience has always been my virtue.

So here are a list of things that I’ve learnt in the month of June:

  1. It’s you vs the world. We are living in a very selfish world and people only give as long as what you’re putting up for them.
  2. Don’t give attention to things that are not gonna be useful for you in the long run. You have to learn to be calculative . See the pros and cons of situation before you invest your energy on them.
  3. Emotions and feelings are fleeting. Nothing in the world is going to last forever. Learn to enjoy the moment as long as you are there. You never know how long are they gonna last.
  4. Save, save and save. Nothing in the world is for free. Money is everything. Earn well and use them to generate more income. The more money you have the more power you get.
  5. Sometimes it’s best to not know about things. Leave them for what they are . The more you try to dig them the further are you gonna get hurt.

I don’t know what the future has in stored for me. I don’t seem to have done anything great so far. When I look back in the days I feel that so many things shouldn’t have happened the way it should be. I feel I shouldn’t have crossed paths with certain people in my life, I think about so many things that I should have done it the right way.

But this June something changed inside me.

I have stopped forcing for answers anymore.

I have stopped chasing validation anymore.

I have no super power to control things and people. I can’t make somebody love me when all they want is a piece of me. I can’t make somebody pour out their attention to me when they themselves look for attention somewhere. I can’t stop people from leaving my life when it’s their choice to do so. I can’t keep making more money when every penny that comes to me slips away.

I can’t and I don’t care because as long as I am alive I will live my life to the fullest. I believe that God has something beautiful written and planned for me already. I know that some day everything will be alright. I know deep down that change doesn’t come through others it comes through the choices I make everyday.

And the mere thought of mine where I feel my life hasn’t progressed much itself is a small victory for me since it’s time for me to recognise my patterns and make sure I learn and grow from them.

Lastly, June isn’t the month of arrival for me. It’s a month of awakening and knowing that healing is always not beautiful. Progress doesn’t need to be loud .

Till then I just have to get going . Though days are hard and nights are lonely. I know that I have miles to go before I sleep.

One decision, one boundary , one day at a time.

Me vs the world

–Senorita 💕

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What April had in stored for me!

Hey guys! I’m back again with another blog post out today. I’ve been telling you that April is one of my favourite months of the year because I like the fiery and spontaneous moments that the energy of Aries the Ram offers me.

April started with just any other month with works and daily chores piled up for me.Yet, I knew deep within my heart that something good was coming up my way.

Here are the list of things that I learnt and would love to include in my day to day ahead and some things that I would forsake for my benefit.

  1. Living in the moment: I am a chronic over thinker but these past few days have taught me that not everything needs to be taken seriously. If something or someone is costing my peace and sanity then it’s not meant for me. I’ve stopped calculating outcomes for things and learnt to let things be.
  2. To be kinder: Not everybody has the capacity to understand people and situation for what they are. I’ve learnt to at least be kind and considerate to people and help them and be for them when I can. Not everything is about money, a few encouraging word and your presence can create miracles in their life.
  3. Stopped living for validation: I no longer care what people think about me . I’ve worked a lot on myself to not let people’s word and opinions have any sort of effect on me. I’ve learnt to appreciate life and people for how they are.
  4. Living life a little: Taking a day off when I don’t feel like working, not responding to my calls when I need a moment of peace, waking up a little late when it’s a long night, not doom scrolling until late at night.Taking trips when needed without caring about the price.All these little things have taught me that taking break is okay.
  5. Looking forward to May: I know for sure that there are lots of things to be dealt in the coming month of May and it might overwhelm me a little but yet there is a small voice inside me saying that I can handle them all and everything is gonna be okay.

I’ve learnt that life is too simple if we just let it flow. Remember that nothing is permanent in life. Everything is temporary and in these fleeting moments of ups and downs stay true to yourself and never let the circumstances bring you down.

You are precious and one of a kind.Stop being hard on yourself and start living a little.

“The pain you have been feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming.”

Romans 8:18

With this I’m signing off until next time.

With love

–Senorita 🩵

Some me time 🤳
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Things that I’m learning in my 30s!

Hello everyone!! How’s it going? March seems to never end! Is it just me? Or do you guys also feel the same?

So many things going on around the world! The world is in chaos with LPG and fuel shortages going around in my country.

But things have never been the same since 2020! I can’t seem to figure it out but the economy has just become different . Everybody is earning but yet nobody is able to save!

Also, today I’m feeling an urge to go back into the times when I was 20 and figuring it out!How carefree was I? How different things were!I have no idea how long has it been and suddenly I’m in my thirties now!

There are things that I wish I could have done in my 20s but I can’t change it and the least I can do is learn to live with it! But my 30s are teaching me better and below are the things that I’m slowly but steadily learning so that I can make my 30s better.

  1. A tight but genuine friend circle: I have always been a loner since my childhood. Maybe because my childhood was different from others of my age.Having lost my father at the tender age of 12 and seeing my family go through hardships, I excelled academically and somewhere thought that I had to look upon myself.But, as the days passed , I started socialising and became quite socially active, but here I am in my 30 telling you guys that having a good set of friend is really important, only the true ones stay with you till the end. If you have one then never let them go.
  2. Saving money is important: In this society, nothing is important than money! Money gives you the respect and freedom to do whatever you want. If you’re just earning and not saving for yourself then all your hard work goes to vain. Learn to stick with your budget. Showing off to people just to be cool and socially accepted drains your energy and your wallet.Invest on yourself and your future.
  3. Being choosy with your energy: This is very important. If you give access to people who don’t even deserve your time you loose your worth. Remember why diamonds are precious.Being readily available for half hearted lovers, selfish friends, toxic environments, people who make you question your worth, who make you believe that you are not pretty enough, not rich enough, don’t have a place in your world! Protect your energy and peace at all costs.
  4. Limiting social media consumption : Yes, time and again social media has raised concern about self worth, comparison, subtle depression in humans. Why wouldn’t one be? Because every time you scroll, you come across a post where someone is travelling somewhere, getting married to someone, giving birth, buying something expensive, driving a fancy car, showing their accomplishments, telling you what to wear and what to apply for that ‘it’ factor! Not only that there are reels about wars, astrology, your numerology, manifestation, some trending videos and what not! everything a scroll away! Your mind gets over stimulated and makes you overly anxious. That is why you should be selective about what things to feed to your brain.
  5. Everyone has their own timelines: Now coming to this I wanna say that we all have different stories in our lives. We all are different. We have different destinies and purposes in lives. Maybe Jack was born to live an average life despite he was born into a rich family and Tom was meant have a luxurious life though he was born in the streets.I feel like God has already planned what’s the next timeline in our lives. Don’t compare your lives with the flawlessly curated lifestyle we see on social media because behind that there is always a story.

Lastly, be grateful and thankful for what you have right now because I assure you that there are people who wish they had your life! Comparison kills joy! Complaining kills peace! Over thinking kills moment! Learn to wait patiently! Boring is happening! Time is money! Slow evenings are better than fast paced ones!

Some me time

With love

–Senorita 💛

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That don’t kill you make you stronger!

Hello everyone! We’ve drawn towards the end of January 2026! Time just seems to fly by so quickly. We’re now stepping into the year of fire Horse as steadily as possible.

There’s still few days left for the year of the Snake to end and we’ll it’s teaching us to shed our old layers and fully let go of the older versions of ourselves.I’m excited for the new month to start as I’m looking forward towards the fiery and spontaneous months ahead.

Routine bores me a lot. I’m never the type to dwell on the same things for a long time. I like changes, I like uncertainty, I like vagueness. No matter whatever is there for me in the future, I for certain know that I’ll enjoy every moment of it.

Time has taught me resilience and patience.It has taught me that every thing comes naturally to you when it’s the right time.Nothing can be forced out of life. All you’ve got to do is keep growing and learning so that when the things you’ve always wanted comes to you , you know it’s value and embrace it wholeheartedly.

We can never erase or change our pasts , yes, sometimes it haunts you, makes you toss and turn the whole night, keeps on knocking you when you think you’ve moved on and yes, sometimes our chests become so tight that we can hardly breathe. Still, we look towards a happy ending and a bright day and remind ourselves that everything shall pass.There are things that are unknown to us, there are people out there waiting to cross our paths , there are things that will come our way when we least expect it happen, there are places yet left for us to visit and make beautiful memories.

These little things keep me going when I feel like the going is getting tough for me also recently, the internet is flooded with videos of an emperor penguin leaving it’s group and venturing towards the mountains in Antarctica and people have been widely debating it’s choice some citing him as a nihilist penguin but for me I feel he’s seeking for something more profound ,I feel empathy and sadness watching the penguin walk away and casting the final glance back to his safety and comfort knowing that he’ll be going forever with no intention of coming back.He’s not sure what lies ahead in his path and still chose to take that one decision that changed his life forever.

I’m very impressed and fascinated by this act of an animal and yet we are humans with full control over our minds and actions and yet we dread to take that leap of faith, that different action, that road which is diverged into woods thinking that comfort and safety is all that matters to us. Life is beyond that, life is beyond materialism, life is beyond a simple man’s comprehension.There is so much beauty in knowing about the unknown, embracing calmness in chaos, knowing that something worth your time and energy is out there somewhere when you decide to take that one action that you always wanted to take.

As February comes I’m looking forward to the unknown, trying to take actions towards my goal, trying to step a little out of my comfort zone, trying to be a bit kinder, a little wiser and stronger because what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!

With love

–Senorita 💕

Some me time💕

Be the penguin 🐧 picture source: Google
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One day to 2026!

Hello my lovely people! I hope everyone is doing well.As you all know that 2025 is ending within a day! and I can’t feel anything more than nostalgia at this moment. So many sane and insane things happened to me this year. I cried, I laughed, I smiled, I cursed, I sang , I danced , I met new people and forsake connections that never helped me to grow.

I’ve always been the one to look towards good things in life and never the one to contemplate over spilled milk.

This year has been overwhelming and underwhelming at the same time.Above all this I can never forget to be grateful for every single moment that I’m alive whether good or bad.

I’m healthy, mentally strong and living my life the way I want to and what more can I ask for!

Here are the list of things that I’ve learned this year so far:

1.Stepping out of my Comfort Zone: I’ve always been the one to negotiate between good and bad even before I initiate anything. But this year I’ve learnt to embrace the unexpected and it has led me to great ventures and connections that really helped me to shape my reality.

2.Seeing beyond the facade: I’ve finally learned to see people for who they are and not what I want them to be. I’ve learnt that some things can never be replaced and some things can never be corrected.So I just let things be what they are and never try to mould people the way I want them to be.As we are humans and humans make mistake and we learn and grow through the process.

3. It’s safe to be you: Not every time do we need to be perfect and flawless.It’s okay to be just yourself. Your quirky habits, edgy style,your imperfections , your misaligned teeth, your like and dislike make you who you are. Don’t let anyone dim your shine.Don’t let anyone tell or make you feel small. You are one of a kind and no body can ever be you.

4. Learning from your mistakes: Time and again I’ve been telling you that mistakes are a part of your journey and learning from them and growing and evolving is upto you.Don’t let it affect you and always think that there’s always something better and greater out there for you.

5.Starting 2026 with a positive mindset: 364 days and you still made it to the last. Think about the people who couldn’t make it to this day.Think about the families who lost someone precious to them this year and wish that they would be here today with them. The feeling itself is so devastating that I can’t comprehend. So, let’s all be thankful that we are here and getting to see this day with you our own eyes.So, whatever happened today in 2025 will not be shaping your 2026. Let your New Year be the best version of yourself.

Lastly, all I want to say is that be grateful for all the things either good or bad that happened in 2025 and look towards the amazing things that are yet to come your way in 2026!

Wishing everyone a wonderful 2026 ahead!

May the year of fire horse be passionate and exciting for everyone of you!

With love

–Senorita 💕

Bye 2025!
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Endings & Beginnings!

Hey everyone! It’s Halloween season here!We’ve already made it to November! We just have one more month left for 2026 and I’m anticipating great things to come my way!

It was like January came and all the other months just faded away with a blink of an eye!I have been thinking why is everything moving too quickly? Days turn to weeks and weeks to months and months to years and here I am just a bit old but with still a very young heart! ❤️

Also, I just turned 30 this September! Yeah, I know too old and nope, I’m not married , haven’t found the one yet, and still learning and growing my way to adulthood.

I love the final months of the year because it’s when I can really analyse my previous months . I like to think about all the things that I’ve accomplished whether big or small and all the things that I’ve done impulsively. This makes me realise about so many things that I should be doing and shouldn’t be doing.

The one thing that I’m really proud of myself is the fact that I don’t let things affect me anymore. I’ve come to a point where I stop blaming people or things and rather look into myself and the parts of me that gave consent to that.

I’ve had my fair share of guilts towards the previous months of the year 2025 and how I wish I would have done things differently but here I’m in the 11th month realising that whatever happened was a part of my destiny and I learnt my lesson and dare not to repeat those things again.

There’s only one month left for 2025 to end and I’ve already mentally started to visualise my 2026 from this time onwards.

Here are the list of things I’m planning to do this November so that my final days of 2025 would turn out to be good.

1 Ending procrastination: I’m too lazy to even start a thing and before starting anything I love daydreaming about the pros and cons. I’ve decided to end my laziness right this month and actually step ahead towards what I’ve wanted to do for so long.

2. Beginning a side hustle: I’ve been trying to start a small business for so long but all on my head. This time I’m really going to give it a go. I don’t wanna start something just for my profit but something that can really uplift and motivate others.

3. Ending my frequent party girl days: I’ve stopped going to pubs and clubs every opportunity I got not because I don’t enjoy it but because I don’t want to be at all the places all the time. What I’ve learnt is privacy is power.People can’t spoil things that they don’t know about.I would rather spend my evenings with meaning conversations with people who actually have my back than getting dressed out and having fun for escapism.

4. Beginning mindful practices: I meditate and journal every other day because it helps me to calm down. I’ve started blogging because of the same reason. Writing makes me feel at ease.I take a second to be grateful for everything I have, for my body, my job, my health, my life , my family and remind myself what a wonderful thing is to be alive.

5. Ending repetitive cycles: Time and again I find myself stuck with the same kind of situation and tried to break free of it but barely managed. This time I’m ending the version of me who tolerated all the things and stand firm on my ground. I’ve been learning to make boundaries and stick with that. If I trace a faint sign of effortlessness from the other party I’m gone without a trace. Money management, time management, energy and frequency are the things that I’m working on.

Because at the end you attract what you are.

I truly hope that November the season of Scorpio ♏️ would bring great transformation into your life but only for the better. I wish you all could figure out what things need to end and what new beginnings need to start in your life.✨💕🫶🏻

Some me time 💕

-with love

–Senorita 💕

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks

Shed the old skin this October!

Hey everyone! Happy holidays!!

It’s festive season here in India and there’s joy and laughter all around. I can’t believe we’ve made it to October so soon.This is my favourite season of the year. It’s officially fall/autumn season here.

I love the warm sun rays and the shedding trees preparing for new leaves for the spring next year.I love the hustle and bustle of people around buying new clothes and accessories for the festive season. It’s all so nice and makes me feel good about the month.

I just turned 30 this September and I’m no longer in my 20s.🥹Earlier, I used to think that turning 30 would be dreadful and I would marry someone and start my own family by the time I reached 30, but, here I am still figuring about my life in my 30, still enjoying my single hood and embracing my independence.

I guess life has all things planned for us.All we need to do is be patient and wait for things to happen at the right time.

Since, it’s already the 10th month of the year 2025, it’s still not too late to do things that you wanted to do in the beginning of the year.

Here are the list of things that I’m looking forward to in the month of October:

  1. Embracing independence and learning to take care of my body and mind.
  2. Letting go of lifestyle and habits that drain me and my pocket.
  3. Saving at least 20% of my monthly income for long term plan and other 10% for my emergency fund.
  4. Investing on assets like Gold over liabilities like an expensive accessory.
  5. Going out only when I feel like it and not because somebody wants me there.
  6. Avoiding too much of scrolling on internet and instead read books that motivates me.
  7. Practising gratitude everyday and journaling whenever I feel like it.
  8. Deep cleaning my private and work spaces every once in a week and practice aura cleansing rituals.
  9. Not letting things affect me and learning to see positively in overwhelming situations.
  10. Last but not the least, I need to change my sleeping pattern, I’m looking forward to getting up early and going to bed early.

So, I’m basically looking towards the brighter side of life inculcating positive rituals and practices in my day to day life.

I really want to shed my old skin this October onwards and pave ways for a better life these coming months.

Wishing everyone a Happy Dussehra and Diwali in advance!

Me on my birthday 🎉

With love

–Senorita 💕

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, Uncategorized

September : The era of dead posting!

Hello everyone!

I’m back again with this month’s blog post.The topic that I’m discussing is about zero posting or dead posting on social media.I’ve been coming across feeds on my Instagram where the trend of dead posting is popping up everywhere!

Well, I believe it’s true because I myself have not posted a single picture since October last year. It’s not like I’ve not clicked pictures that are Instagram worthy rather my gallery is full of pictures that may get me good amounts of likes and comments. Yet, I just don’t feel like uploading them and I don’t know why?

I’ve been doing a social media detox for weeks now and trust me it feels good to save myself from endless scrolling.

Here are a list of things that I feel like why zero posting/ dead posting is the ‘it factor’ now and why I like it:

  • Instagram story: Basically people just upload pictures on their stories these days without posting them.Earlier , both feed and story used to be uploaded simultaneously by the users for engagement.Now, it’s just story and no more feed.
  • Too much of marketing: I miss the old Instagram where we could just click pictures of our food, pets, hands , clouds, flowers basically everything on Instagram feed with hashtags like, like for like and followforfollow.Nowadays, the moment we open Instagram , there are brands and people selling and recommending us some products just because it’s out there! I mean hello! Is it really that good? Did it work for them? Nobody knows.
  • Influencers and their influencing: I’m sorry to say but I’ve never liked the idea of influencing people. I mean c’mon we’re all unique individual. You don’t need to buy or wear or apply or go somewhere just because popular people are vouching for them!People literally get paid or sponsored to advertise them. Learn to embrace authenticity.Find your own style, Go to place that you really like, buy skincare that really suit your skin and not because so and so are promoting them.
  • Too much of muddled contents: Now, the next are content creators. Some contents are really nice and you do get to learn so many positive things from there on the other hand some content make no sense at all. People have started creating content to sell content to content creators! Phew! that was long.Anyways, be mindful of what you see and scroll.
  • A frenzy of emotion: This I’m literally saying is because I go through roller coaster of emotions while scrolling through my feed. I mean first you see some protest going on and in the next moment there is bloodshed, and the next you’re seeing is some dead ass meme and then upon further scrolling you see some funny videos and you start laughing and furthermore you’re watching how to dress like old money , then some crazy AI generated pictures and lastly you end up in the dark humour page.I mean 10 minutes of scrolling and you’ve literally been through thousands of emotions already.
  • Peace over chaos: Since, I am not active on social media, I can indulge myself in things that really matter.Talk to someone over the phone, finish up my pending task, declutter my spaces, re arrange my furnitures, watch some wholesome movie, tend my plants,physically go out to meet people,do some exercises.I feel like myself again.

I feel people have started realising like me that not every moment needs to be captured and posted.Some things are better kept private.Seeking validation from people that you don’t actually know in person is not wise.Some people don’t even like or comment on your posts cause they’re there just to keep up with you.Also I’ve never seen successful people waste their time in posting on social media because they’re too busy on focusing on their growth.Nobody knows the reality behind the virtual world. Let enigma and privacy be your new trend!

Out in the rain 🌧️

With love

–Senorita 💕

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, August

All out or nothing this August!

Hey everyone! The monsoon season is here! It’s the 8th month of the year.Things have finally shifted for me. I hope that the year ends well for everyone.

We only have 4 months left for 2025 to end! It’s time we get serious about things.You no longer have time for procrastination and delays. It’s all out or nothing now!

Set aside your setbacks and it’s time for a comeback now!

Here are the few things that I have decided to follow this August:

1.No more toxicity in my life: I’ve come to terms with the phrase that meet people as much as they meet you. I’m completely eliminating any form of toxicity from my life. I no longer want to sit in the table with people who talk about people. I no longer wanna engage with things which don’t help me grow. I no longer want to entertain negativity in any form in my life. I’m really done with people pleasing. I will not hesitate to cut off people and situation who don’t reciprocate my energy and kindness.

2.Finding myself again: These past few months were really difficult for me. I was drowned in endless waves of solitude and sadness pondering upon the choices I’ve made in my life. Running around sea of people who had no good intentions with me, who crushed me, had illusions about me. Now, I want to let go of every negativity. I wanna drop off those burdens from my life.I wanna seek gratitude and peace.

3. Being selective about my energy: Now, all these things matter because previously I was investing my energy and effort into wrong people and things.I no longer wish to associate myself with habitual liars and master manipulators. One who throw dirt on your name behind your back and act friendly in your face. One who comes to you for convenience.

4. Work on myself: Also, all the things that occurred to me happened because I was operating from a point of low frequency which made me attract things and people from the same low vibrational energy. Everything starts and ends with me.If I heal and grow from within, then the enemy outside can do me no harm. I myself have to work on self and eliminate those deep rooted limitations within me.

5. Be a better person everyday: As already mentioned before I need to be a better person and change my thoughts and mindset for me to get a better outcome. I need to forgive and let go of things that I had no control over, I need to inculcate good and positive habits on me so that I no longer deviate from my path of positivity. Also, it’s not my duty to change people and their thoughts because I am not what they think I am rather they are what they think I am.

With this I hope that one should understand that the answer lies within you. If you don’t like something have it in your system to say no! Let mystery be your new energy. Not everyone deserves your energy and time. Be selective, be choosy and be happy!

Some me time 💚💚

With love

–Senorita 💚

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, Julyintentions

Propaganda I’m not falling for this July!!

Hey everyone! It’s July here! We’re now on the other half of the year 2025!

These past six months have been quite tumultuous for me! With my emotions all over the place and my money draining out like water.

I’ve always tried to be a positive person in every situation and like to look at the brighter side of life but you know not everyday you have the energy or the mood to be happy and full of life.

Sometimes I like to visit my past and question about certain choices I made in life back when I was young and naive and like to think how things would unfold for me had I not made the choice to do so but you know that every choice and mistake you made on the past was exactly what you wanted at that time and crying over spilled milk is not gonna help me or take anywhere.

So, since life is so unpredictable and you never know what is gonna happen next, why fret about things that you don’t know now!

Anyways, I’ve made a list of propaganda that social media and other platforms tell you is the best for you yet you know that we’re not the same, and those things might not work you.

1.Being happy all the time: As I’ve already mentioned that we are human beings and it’s not possible for us to remain happy and positive all the time. Sometimes, we feel overwhelmed by certain things that we don’t know what step we should take next. We find ourselves locked in with thoughts and emotions and sometimes with guilt and sadness and fear and what not. Feeling sad is absolutely fine, it makes you go deeper within you and embracing your emotions and acting crazy or crying your eyes out sometimes make you feel better. We’re all humans with diverse range of emotions with in. So, sadness and loneliness make you want to be happy again and you find yourself looking for things to make you feel alive again like scrolling through funny videos, recalling those good memories when you laughed until you cried, that warm cup of tea after a very exhausting day, talking to your friends about the things that bother you will make you feel better.

2. Following every trend: You know when you walk down the street and everyone is wearing the same clothes, doing the same hairstyle, hopping on to buy the same thing just because it’s trending, visiting the same place because it’s hot now and may be you think it’s cool and will make you a part of the ‘it’ community, is just sad.By doing this you’re killing the original you and your uniqueness. Remember, how different and cool and unique you are. Embrace your originality, find your unique style and stick to that. Trends come and go, but style never fades.

3.Idolising someone too much: I can’t understand the concept behind idolising people to the extent that you walk and talk like them.I do know that we have our own celebrity or influencer crushes but no man, I would never ever try to be a clone of them. I love myself too much to be them.My clumsy side, my funny side, the way I talk and think, my style, my voice, my face, all these things make me and that’s who I am, I wouldn’t want to kill the real me to embody someone else’s persona or style.

4. Being overly nice: I think I was a people pleaser once, keeping their wants and needs ahead of mine.I always tried to bring a smile on their face knowing that it wasn’t best for me. Lots of times I’ve forsaken my convenience and tried to keep theirs. This time, I’m only meeting people halfway, I don’t hesitate in saying ‘no’ and maintaining my peace and dignity. I’ve taken time in clearing away people and situation in my life that no longer serves me. I’ve decided to not let my brain think about what if’s and could have’s, it’s just straight up now, you respect me I respect you, you belittle me and take me for granted I’m gone.

5.Believing everything I see on social media: I’m a woman and I see quotes and reels on social media where women and girls are saying things like a man has to have certain thousand dollars and sports car to marry them cause they’re high maintenance or where people are promoting infidelity and vulgarism through reels and posting thirst traps for likes and comments are saddening. Buying makeup just because someone on the reel said it’s great and hauling items and clothes because someone said the fabric is great and looks super cool on them, is utterly ridiculous. You need to know that they’re getting it for free for promotion and what looks good on them may not look good or suit you.Be mindful of people and pages you follow, what you see and hear and think is what you become.

I hope you’ll have a wonderful July ahead !

With love

–Senorita🍒