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3:33

Hello everyone! I’m back again with another blog post for the month of April 2025 and the time right now is 3:33 pm.

To be honest life after 2019 seems to be moving too fast for my mind to comprehend.

Everything is moving too fast and too quickly.2020 was almost 5 years away!

So many things have happened after 2020 not to mention the rise in economy.Everything seems too pricey and extravagant these days.A five hundred rupee note has become equivalent to a hundred rupee note.Where social media influencers and Tik Tokers are making good amount through their niche and regular people who are posting and sharing their contents are well you know at the same place where they used to be.( including me 😅)

Also, we are growing and learning at the same time.

Just yesterday evening I was reading the second instalment from the world wide best seller book from the author Rhonda Byrne’s “The Greatest secret”and I was deeply inspired by some of the Paragraphs from there and I would love to write about them.

Summary of my favourite lines from the book from Chapter 5:

  1. Your mind is not your brain: Of course, our minds don’t control us, we control our minds.It’s just a part of our body and we command it to use in however way we want. Therefore, it’s essential for us to think about good thoughts no matter if the situation is not in our favour.It has been mentioned in the book that thoughts are responsible for causing our feelings, and any type of negative thoughts contribute to us feeling low and not enough.
  2. Time is an illusion: Another paragraph which stuck to me is the fact that time is just an illusion and I have been saying that there’s no yesterday or tomorrow. There’s just today and the present.There’s no such thing as time , it was created by men to do certain chores throughout the day and rest at night.So, if we want our tomorrow to be fruitful, we should work on our present rather that visiting the glimpses of past.
  3. Observe your thought: We get emotional when our mind starts wandering and thinking about what if’s and could haves.We are hopeful thinking about the future and what it holds for us that is why we should learn to observe our thoughts and those thoughts which make you feel sad and despair should be replace with thoughts of gratitude and happiness.That is why as already mentioned in the book instead of getting lost in your thoughts we should start seeing them for what they are and take every thought into account and relieve and accept them for what they are rather than resisting them.

Therefore, inorder for us to live a meaningful life, we must learn to stop overthinking, what would X and Y think about me if I don’t do certain things on certain time, what would happen to me if I don’t achieve something in certain timeline. What would the society tell me if I do this and not that, all these things don’t matter in the journey of life.

When you’re somewhat 60 or 70 nobody cares about how you looked, how sad or broke you were,all that matters is how well you lived your life, how many great memories you created your way, what a hearty laugh you had when something funny happened,Hence, at the end overthinking kills your joy of staying in the present. Live your life to the fullest and stop worrying about tomorrow and enjoy your present.

You’re never going to be this young or healthy again, You’re never getting back your present moment again make awareness your go to habit and learn to bring yourself back to happiness and present when you find yourself drowning in your misery of negative thoughts.

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“You don’t have to eliminate your mind or go to war with your mind. Awareness is your way out of the turmoil of the mind”.

– Rhonda Byrne

With love

–Senorita 🤍

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Pisces season

Hey everyone!

I’m back with another blog post today.

It’s already Pisces season here ♓️.3 months have already passed by with a blink of an eye.I’m flabbergasted as to see how quickly the months are passing by.

Here are some the intentions that I have been trying to follow this month.

1.Live for yourself: A little pampering can never hurt anyone.You deserve a break from your monotonous routine every now and then.Sometimes life can be overwhelming.A get together with your near and dear ones, a little bit of fun and spending quality times can give you a renewed sense of peace.

2. Not everything has to be rigid: Learn to flow with life. Embrace every moment .Live in the moment.Sometimes letting go and living a little is all that counts.Never say never.Gone days will never come back.

3. Splurge on yourself: Pamper yourself with things that you have longed for.Buy that perfume, wear that dress, go on trips, eat that food that you’re craving, go out and take pictures. Life is too short and you never know what’s gonna happen next so, do it now.

4. Embrace changes: Change is the only thing constant and it is quintessential. Make small changes in your life, take a different route to work, read a different genre of book, if you’re into pop switch to country songs,if you like tea switch to coffee, if you’re a night owl change into an early bird.I feel a little bit of change can change your perspective on various things

At last we all are human beings who are living our lives for the first time on this planet and we have different lives.What I’m going through, you might have never gone through and what you have been through, I might never be able to experience it.

So live a little and laugh a lot.

Some me time

With love

–Senorita 💙

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Last Sunday!

Hello everyone !

It’s the last Sunday of February! How quickly the time flies by!

To be honest 2025 has been a quiet year for me.Everything seems to have been serene and low key for me.May be it’s the realisation that I’m not 20 anymore or the nostalgic flashbacks from the previous years.

Time seems have escalated quickly since 2019. Parts of me long for the things that now seems like a long forgotten dream.

And everything seems like a hazy dream to me.Not every day is a good day for me yet I look for the good in everyday.

So basically, I have been hoping any praying that everything will fall in place, if not today then some other day.

Here are a list of things that I have realised and been sticking to since the beginning of this year.

  1. Not everyone has the best interest in heart for you : Yes, You heard it right, not every people you come across in your journey has the best feelings for you. People are complex and not getting too comfortable to them without knowing them deeply can save you from heartbreaks and negative emotion. I believe and time and again I have applying it in my life that not everyone deserves a piece of you.
  2. Money comes first : Earlier, I used to believe back in my naive days that money doesn’t bring you happiness but time and again I have realised that money is the source of all happiness. When you are financially stable and secured (especially for girls) , respect, power and admiration comes naturally to you. Learn to save and not waste your money in pleasing people who don’t even appreciate you.
  3. Stay away from Gossipers: Not everyone is the same, some people like indulging themselves in juicy gossips which I personally feel is a waste of time. Discussing people, their choices, their lifestyles, is a total disaster because we ourselves know that we are not perfect rather indulge yourself in cultivating a better version of yourself.
  4. If you’re not ready for a relationship don’t force one: I know that dating in 2025 is equivalent to fishing in the ocean where you get lots of fish of different varieties and colour but you have no idea which ones are poisonous. The perfect person will come to you at the right time, in the mean time practice self love.
  5. Read atleast 10 pages of book everyday: Reading is therapeutic. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I like to pick my books and relax. Not only does reading help you in garnering knowledge about different topics but you get to increase your vocabulary too.

I’m looking forward to a fruitful March with the same old me but yet a new me in the way that I perceive things and being optimistic in every negative situation.

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Happiness starts with me and I choose it daily.

With love

–Senorita 💕

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Hey Jan!

Hello everyone!

We have already stepped in the year 2025 and 13 days have already passed by since then.

Last year ended on a melancholic note since the Jeju airline crash and this year Los Angeles got burned down with the wildfires.

My deep condolences and prayers to everyone who lost their loved ones and home in the process.

I hope the rest of 2025 would be a good one.I really pray that each and everyone of us would be able to enjoy the coming days with peace and love and lots of gratitude.

Also, there are a handful of things that I’m intending to do on the rest of January.

1.Being Grateful: I always emphasise on the fact that a grateful heart is a source for endless miracle. Be grateful for what you have and look forward to beautiful things coming your way.Be grateful for the small things in your life.We are fortunate enough to experience all these basic things which lots of people don’t have access to.

2.Clean your spaces: keep your spaces clean.Donate clothes which you no longer feel like wearing. Throw away things that you no longer use.Keeping your spaces clean and tidy sets the mood for the day and regulates positivity in you.

3.Practice mindfulness: A healthy mind is the key to achieving and manifesting all that you desire. Reflect on the day and restart each day on a positive tone. Read books, take a walk,spend time with nature, water your plants and flowers, grow new crops,write on your journals, listen to spiritual chants.Don’t let intrusive thoughts discourage you for what you’re already capable of doing.

4. Detox from endless scrolling: Yes, we have posted and scrolled throughout this week, keeping updated with somebody’s Christmas and New Year celebrations and another’s Bride to be and Baby showers.Not to forget all those trends on reels and somebody promoting and criticising the other.I think I personally enjoy my alone time when I can dedicate some time to myself other than endless scrolling.I think taking some time away from social media promotes positivity in your life.

5. Going out less: when it comes to going out and having fun, I’m no less that anyone.I have now understood the value of being exclusive and not being too available and ready for anyone.The less you show up in crowds the more you feel respected.let people value and look forward to your presence rather than criticising you in your absence.

Me back in 2019!

Also I’m trying to really follow and practice what I preach. I’m looking forward to having betters days ahead.

“If you change the way you look at things,the things you look at change.”

-with love

–Senorita 💕

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2 days to 2025!!!

Hello everyone!

Wishing you all a very happy holidays and New Year 2025 in advance!

There’s just 2 freaking days left for 2024 to end! I can’t comprehend the fact that we have already completed 364 days out of 366 days this year! ( yeah, 2024 is a leap year)

This year was not an easy one. Like every year, I have been trying to look forward for good days despite of the bad ones. Lots of things have changed already and I guess it’s for the better. Also, the fact that I’ll be turning freaking 30 next year! 🥹

I always look forward to another year with hope that it’s going to be great one and every year my faith in myself becomes stronger to face any type of adversity that are bound to come my way.

In 2024 I learnt a little and grew up a lot.

Here are basically the list of things that I’m looking forward to in 2025 :

  1. Learning to be frugal: Time and again I have been trying to inculcate this habit in my day to day life. Buy things that you really need and not what you want.
  2. Listening to my heart: Every now and then I am trying more to do things with my heart and trying to understand my emotions better. I’m learning to be more kind and generous towards myself and others.
  3. Growing up more: Maturity doesn’t happen over age. You have to learn your lessons in order to grow and heal. What seemed like an idea of fun now seems bland and I would choose a self pampered Saturday with books and movies over a Saturday night out.
  4. Taking out time for myself: I am now done with people pleasing over my happiness and now I wouldn’t hesitate to cut off anything and anyone that causes me stress over sleep.I have come to realise that happiness starts with you.
  5. Being Grateful: I am grateful for every setbacks and lessons that I’ve learnt till now and happy that it has moulded me into the women that I am today. I wouldn’t say that I’m perfect but I can definitely say that I am strong.

I can’t wait to start my 2025 with love, joy, happiness and peace and I pray that everyone of you find the same.

Some me time ✌🏻

“It’s never too late to be what you might have been”.

-with love

Senorita🤍

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The 11th Month!!

Hello everyone !

I’m back again with another blog post.

It’s already the 2nd week of of the last autumn month of the year.

Time flies so quickly, also the last few months went by too quickly with lots of festivals on the way. Dussehra and Diwali were the festivals we were waiting for and lo! it’s already time for Christmas now.( hehe)

I’m always excited for the last months of the year as I can’t wait to start afresh every new year.

Also there’s a lot of posts surfacing on the internet about how these four cardinal signs, Aries, Libra, Cancer and Capricorn are finally leaving their 16 years of chaotic energy from Pluto.

Me being a Libra ♎️, I’m pretty much excited about all these because as far as I know, I’ve been through a lot in the past years but I’ve made it good so far!

Also, the other thing I’m excited about this November is the 11th day of the 11th Month of 2024, yes, I’m talking about 11.11.2024.

I’ve always been a firm believer of manifesting things rather than leaving it to fate.I believe that the more you believe in yourself and work on yourself , there’s nothing that can stop you from achieving the things you want.

I’m looking forward to journaling and staying positive throughout this time.

Do get your pen and a notebook, and write down things that you are grateful for, willing to achieve and your desires on that special day.

Things to focus on this month:

1. Making peace with yourself and situations :We’re already heading towards the end of 2024, so don’t keep yourself entangled with things you can’t fix, let them be. Find your peace.

2.Setting goals for 2025: It’s not too soon to envision your future and yourself for the next year.Challenge yourself to get things going your way for the new year. Work on yourself, stay disciplined.

3.Staying committed to yourself: Now, since you have already decided what’s best for you, stick to them. Work on your mental and physical health.

4. Learning to say ‘No’: As I’ve always been telling that not everything and everyone deserves your energy. Be selfish of your time and energy. Learn to see who and what is actually good for you. Beware of energy vampires and stick to people who naturally boost your energy.

The image displayed here has been taken by me

Lastly, I wanna tell you that, “You are enough and there’s nobody else like you”.

-with love

-Senorita 💙

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Ready for fall!

Hey folks! It’s October season. Fall is finally here. I can’t believe that we just have 3 months left for 2024 to end. With so many festivals lining up and Halloween and Christmas on the brink, 2024 will end up in the blink of an eye.

Let’s make October a fruitful and a meaningful month while embracing positivity and being optimistic for the unknown.

Things to do in October:

  1. Declutter : Get rid of unwanted things from your spaces. Throw away those old pair of shoes. Tidy your working space by getting rid of unwanted papers and old pens. Clean your living space. Add fresh flowers in your room. Buy new ornamental plants. Add some scented candles and perfume diffusers on your living space.
  2. Make a to do list: Grab your journal and make a list of things you want to look forward on October. Prepare yourself to stay disciplined in accomplishing your goals.
  3. Read a new book: Get yourself some new self help books or an enticing New Romantic novel to help you spend your cozy nights in the fall.Add some exciting collections of web toons or web novels on your Wattpad.
  4. Get yourself a makeover: Go for a new hairstyle or haircut this season. Get yourself a new manicure and pedicure in the shades of autumn. Buy new pairs of boots or a timeless wardrobe for the coming months.
  5. Stay optimistic: No matter what you’re going through learn to stay positive and look forward to good things in life.Stay grateful and be kind.A grateful heart is the source of endless miracles.
The image displayed here has been taken by me.

“Gather and be grateful”.

With love

–Senorita 🤎

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It’s September baby!

Hey everyone!

It’s September here already!We are already in the Virgo season of the year.It’s time for being grounded and stable.2024 is almost nearing it’s end. Let’s start the 1st day of the month with a spoonful of positivity.

  1. Look back and thank yourself for how far you have come.
  2. Learn to live in the moment.
  3. Let go of unhealthy habits and unnecessary attachments.
  4. Earn well and spend wisely.
  5. Take sometime to retreat.
  6. Plan your month’s to do list.
  7. Prepare yourself for any kind of setbacks that come your way.
  8. Check your diet and stay hydrated.
  9. Cut off negativity from your life.
  10. De clutter your space and mind.
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I’m looking forward to the beautiful autumn months that follow, calm mornings with leaves all over the grounds, trees shedding their old leaves with a bit chilly yet warm sunsets in the evening.

“May your September be filled with love, blessings and healing.”

-with love

–Senorita 🩶

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Hey August!

Hello everyone!

Hope you’re doing well. We already are in the 8th month of the year.Everyday is passing by so quickly. Is it just me or do you guys also feel that just yesterday we celebrated ‘New Year’ (hehe)?

Well let us all thank the lord for keeping us safe all these months.Of course it wasn’t an easy ride, we faced certain setbacks, things were delayed, there were ups and downs,yet we made it ( yay).

This fiery , leading month of August is one of my favourites month of the year. It usually is a passionate one. So, without further adieu let’s make a list of things we’re doing and discarding this August.

1. Being grateful : Let us all take a moment to see how far we have come despite all the circumstances, and let’s take a moment to thank everyone and everything that made you happy . A grateful heart is a miracle for endless blessings.

2. Work on yourself: The year hasn’t ended yet, we still have more 5 months to go. Dedicate these 5 months to become the best version of yourself. Let’s make the rest of the months the best.

3.Prioritise your health: Health is the ultimate wealth. You can achieve anything as long as you’re sound and healthy. Start getting fit, hit the gym, drink and eat healthy. Go for a run, hike, check your diet.

4. Be frugal : Now, this is something which I also need to work on, not splurging and overspending on unnecessary things. Don’t indulge on useless sprees unless you really need it.

5.Have some me time: After endless meetings and get together with people, give some time to yourself, re discover yourself, read your favourite book, have a spa day at home, clean your room, do your laundry, take a peaceful nap, write on your journal.

This image displayed here has been taken by me.

“Live in the sunshine”.

With love

–Senorita 🤍

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The next and next!

Hello everyone!

How’s it going? I hope everyone is doing well . We’re already drawing towards the end of Cancer season this year. No wonder we have been contemplating a lot about our lives and choices.

It’s okay not to be okay sometimes and it’s okay to question your belief system always.

Not everyday is a happy one and not everyday is a gloomy one.

I read somewhere that life is all about choices. Choices you make in your day to day lives make a big difference.

But how do you know if it’s the right choice?

Have you ever found yourself getting drained and not feeling well? Well, it’s just your body and your surroundings tell you that you need to recharge yourself.

It’s alright to take a break sometimes from all your responsibilities, your choices, your lifestyles, just take a chill pill and relax.

When you really need to find yourself, you need to let your emotions take hold of you, no discussions, no disturbances, just go deep within yourself and really feel the intensity of your emotions.

Escaping from your reality sometime makes you embrace it.Sit down, breathe, drink your coffee, drink your water, write on your journals, take a walk, take a retreat to nature, sit down near water bodies, meditate, reflect on yourself, take a vacation, de clutter your space,do what makes you feel happy.

Being overwhelmed is alright, you don’t know where you are going, what you are doing? But when you don’t experience these things in life, then you’ll never grow !

Growing up takes time. Maturity doesn’t come knocking on your door.You grow through what you go through!

In the mean time just figure yourself out. No matter what people say about you, you can never please them.Do your thing, have faith on yourself, Not everything is constant.

Remember not everybody and everything needs your attention or energy.Let them be.

In the meantime take care of yourself, drink your water, have your meal, talk to your near ones, life is short, we are mortals not immortals, one day all you take with you are your memories and experiences.

This image displayed here has been taken by me

“If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way”.

With love

–Senorita 💚