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Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, August

All out or nothing this August!

Hey everyone! The monsoon season is here! It’s the 8th month of the year.Things have finally shifted for me. I hope that the year ends well for everyone.

We only have 4 months left for 2025 to end! It’s time we get serious about things.You no longer have time for procrastination and delays. It’s all out or nothing now!

Set aside your setbacks and it’s time for a comeback now!

Here are the few things that I have decided to follow this August:

1.No more toxicity in my life: I’ve come to terms with the phrase that meet people as much as they meet you. I’m completely eliminating any form of toxicity from my life. I no longer want to sit in the table with people who talk about people. I no longer wanna engage with things which don’t help me grow. I no longer want to entertain negativity in any form in my life. I’m really done with people pleasing. I will not hesitate to cut off people and situation who don’t reciprocate my energy and kindness.

2.Finding myself again: These past few months were really difficult for me. I was drowned in endless waves of solitude and sadness pondering upon the choices I’ve made in my life. Running around sea of people who had no good intentions with me, who crushed me, had illusions about me. Now, I want to let go of every negativity. I wanna drop off those burdens from my life.I wanna seek gratitude and peace.

3. Being selective about my energy: Now, all these things matter because previously I was investing my energy and effort into wrong people and things.I no longer wish to associate myself with habitual liars and master manipulators. One who throw dirt on your name behind your back and act friendly in your face. One who comes to you for convenience.

4. Work on myself: Also, all the things that occurred to me happened because I was operating from a point of low frequency which made me attract things and people from the same low vibrational energy. Everything starts and ends with me.If I heal and grow from within, then the enemy outside can do me no harm. I myself have to work on self and eliminate those deep rooted limitations within me.

5. Be a better person everyday: As already mentioned before I need to be a better person and change my thoughts and mindset for me to get a better outcome. I need to forgive and let go of things that I had no control over, I need to inculcate good and positive habits on me so that I no longer deviate from my path of positivity. Also, it’s not my duty to change people and their thoughts because I am not what they think I am rather they are what they think I am.

With this I hope that one should understand that the answer lies within you. If you don’t like something have it in your system to say no! Let mystery be your new energy. Not everyone deserves your energy and time. Be selective, be choosy and be happy!

Some me time 💚💚

With love

–Senorita 💚

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, Julyintentions

Propaganda I’m not falling for this July!!

Hey everyone! It’s July here! We’re now on the other half of the year 2025!

These past six months have been quite tumultuous for me! With my emotions all over the place and my money draining out like water.

I’ve always tried to be a positive person in every situation and like to look at the brighter side of life but you know not everyday you have the energy or the mood to be happy and full of life.

Sometimes I like to visit my past and question about certain choices I made in life back when I was young and naive and like to think how things would unfold for me had I not made the choice to do so but you know that every choice and mistake you made on the past was exactly what you wanted at that time and crying over spilled milk is not gonna help me or take anywhere.

So, since life is so unpredictable and you never know what is gonna happen next, why fret about things that you don’t know now!

Anyways, I’ve made a list of propaganda that social media and other platforms tell you is the best for you yet you know that we’re not the same, and those things might not work you.

1.Being happy all the time: As I’ve already mentioned that we are human beings and it’s not possible for us to remain happy and positive all the time. Sometimes, we feel overwhelmed by certain things that we don’t know what step we should take next. We find ourselves locked in with thoughts and emotions and sometimes with guilt and sadness and fear and what not. Feeling sad is absolutely fine, it makes you go deeper within you and embracing your emotions and acting crazy or crying your eyes out sometimes make you feel better. We’re all humans with diverse range of emotions with in. So, sadness and loneliness make you want to be happy again and you find yourself looking for things to make you feel alive again like scrolling through funny videos, recalling those good memories when you laughed until you cried, that warm cup of tea after a very exhausting day, talking to your friends about the things that bother you will make you feel better.

2. Following every trend: You know when you walk down the street and everyone is wearing the same clothes, doing the same hairstyle, hopping on to buy the same thing just because it’s trending, visiting the same place because it’s hot now and may be you think it’s cool and will make you a part of the ‘it’ community, is just sad.By doing this you’re killing the original you and your uniqueness. Remember, how different and cool and unique you are. Embrace your originality, find your unique style and stick to that. Trends come and go, but style never fades.

3.Idolising someone too much: I can’t understand the concept behind idolising people to the extent that you walk and talk like them.I do know that we have our own celebrity or influencer crushes but no man, I would never ever try to be a clone of them. I love myself too much to be them.My clumsy side, my funny side, the way I talk and think, my style, my voice, my face, all these things make me and that’s who I am, I wouldn’t want to kill the real me to embody someone else’s persona or style.

4. Being overly nice: I think I was a people pleaser once, keeping their wants and needs ahead of mine.I always tried to bring a smile on their face knowing that it wasn’t best for me. Lots of times I’ve forsaken my convenience and tried to keep theirs. This time, I’m only meeting people halfway, I don’t hesitate in saying ‘no’ and maintaining my peace and dignity. I’ve taken time in clearing away people and situation in my life that no longer serves me. I’ve decided to not let my brain think about what if’s and could have’s, it’s just straight up now, you respect me I respect you, you belittle me and take me for granted I’m gone.

5.Believing everything I see on social media: I’m a woman and I see quotes and reels on social media where women and girls are saying things like a man has to have certain thousand dollars and sports car to marry them cause they’re high maintenance or where people are promoting infidelity and vulgarism through reels and posting thirst traps for likes and comments are saddening. Buying makeup just because someone on the reel said it’s great and hauling items and clothes because someone said the fabric is great and looks super cool on them, is utterly ridiculous. You need to know that they’re getting it for free for promotion and what looks good on them may not look good or suit you.Be mindful of people and pages you follow, what you see and hear and think is what you become.

I hope you’ll have a wonderful July ahead !

With love

–Senorita🍒

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, June intentions, Spirituality

The eyes,Chico.They never lie.

Hey everyone! Happy June! Wishing everyone that your June goes well. May you get and achieve all your desires.

A famous movie from the 80’s Scarface brought this iconic dialogue to light,”The eyes, Chico. They never lie”. Well, eyes are the window to the soul.It’s the most important sense organ in the human body. Imagine a life without colours, it would be disheartening.

Also we can see someone’s true intentions through their eyes, even if they’re denying it.

Today I’ll be sharing few of my intentions for the month of June and eyes, the eyes play a pivotal role in it.

1.Being aware of my surroundings: Every now and then, I find myself in places where I don’t belong. After spending some time with the person or people I find myself getting drained. All I wish for is to go home and take some good rest and I start questioning myself as to why did I had to go and do certain things when all I did was regretted at the end. These days, I’ve become very particular about whom I give my energy to and whom to block it from.

2.Staying mysterious: I’ve started to segregate between what I share and keep with myself to people. Not everyone have the best interest in heart for you. While you complain and fret about your life to others, some take pride in criticising your problems and downfall.Also , some things are better kept in dark.Not everyone needs to know about your whereabouts and achievements.

3.Evil eye is real: In the world of social media where everybody is flexing about their lifestyle and achievements, it’s better to remain low-key.Not posting about your every purchase and achievement saves you from prying eyes. As I already mentioned that some people silently envy and pray for your downfall rather that appreciating it.

4.See people for who they are: This is the one thing which I’ve been practising for a while, everyone is selfish and so am I. It’s never your duty to try and change someone. Living in the delusion that our love, care, support can change them is a blatant lie. We can never change them unless they decide to be a better person.

5. Limiting screen time: Well, I’ve been following this since my eyes gave up on me. I used to scroll endlessly and ended up with very dry eyes for which I’ve been wearing Blue ray protection glasses while working on computer and using phone.Keep some time apart from your mobile and engage in other activities that boosts your creativity.Maybe read a book, have chit-chats with your friend.

Lastly, It’s already the 6th month now!Why does time seem to pass quicker now ? Is it me growing older or the earth is rotating faster?I don’t know!

I hope the rest of June favours me and all of you.

Me today 🩵🩵🩵

With love

–Senorita 🩵

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, happiness, lifestyle,hope, Spirituality

May all be good!

Hello everyone!

Happy Sunday! I’m back again with prayers and intentions for the month of May 2025.

We’ve already covered the past 4 months with determination and courage and looking forward towards the rest of the months for this year.

May is I must say a laid back month for me.All the hassles of the previous months have been completed whether in work or personal life. Though, a little tension arose with in my country India with the neighbouring country Pakistan, eventually it got settled.Our world can’t handle another war with innocent lives at stake.With so many events happening around the world with Met Gala 2025 and a new Pope in the Vatican City. 2025 is all headed towards a great start.

Amidst this I have been working towards myself adopting things and habit which are beneficial for me and eliminating things and habits which will take me nowhere.

Here are a list of things that I’ve been practising for this month:

1.Enjoying my own company: I’ve been labelled as a social butterfly by people I know, always saying ‘yes’ to events and night outs without thinking twice.I’ve scattered my energy in the process of meeting ‘new’ people and going to new and happening ‘places’.Now, when I sit back and realise there are moments when I think about things I shouldn’t have done or places I shouldn’t have been to.I’ve started to enjoy my own company indulging on hobbies like writing, journaling, reading, etc which I really do enjoy. I haven’t completely left my fun side but I’m now mindful of my time and days when I really feel like going out and having fun.

2. Cleaning my personal and work space:Now, I frequently take the opportunity to declutter my working space and clean my personal space whenever I have time. I don’t hesitate donating clothes which no longer fit me or throwing away away clothes and bags which are no good to use.I clean my makeup bags every now and then and discard blenders or tubes of cream which are too old to be used.

3. No longer indulging on impulsive buying: Earlier, I used to buy clothes and cosmetics even when I didn’t need them. I used to scroll on various online sites and place orders when certain products used to be on sale, thinking I needed them, but now, I only buy things when I really need them and not when I want them.I’ve started segregating between my needs and wants and this has helped me to save my money which I was mindlessly spending on things which I didn’t really need.

4. Started reading again: I’ve started reading at least 5-10 pages of self help books at night before going to bed. This has helped me to increase my knowledge on so many things and has helped me to be positive and eliminate any limiting beliefs. I’ve started practising meditation, my mind is now no longer cluttered with unwanted thoughts all day, I try to be aware of anything that brings me down and trying to restore peace and positivity in my life.

5. Being Grateful for everything: I guess this I’ve been preaching for a long time. No matter where I am or what I’m doing I take a moment to thank the Universe or any higher power for everything. I practice the technique of Hoponopono everyday before closing my eyes and it has immensely helped me to overcome adversities.

In conclusion, I’m trying to be a better person everyday and things that used to bother me a year ago, no longer hurts me now. I’ve come to a realisation that Everything in life has a purpose and everything happens for a reason and instead of saying why me?I’ve started saying try me !

Some me time

“When you replace why me with what is it teaching me, everything changes.

With love

–Senorita 🤍

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, Feb2025hackd, happiness, lifestyle,hope, Spirituality

Last Sunday!

Hello everyone !

It’s the last Sunday of February! How quickly the time flies by!

To be honest 2025 has been a quiet year for me.Everything seems to have been serene and low key for me.May be it’s the realisation that I’m not 20 anymore or the nostalgic flashbacks from the previous years.

Time seems have escalated quickly since 2019. Parts of me long for the things that now seems like a long forgotten dream.

And everything seems like a hazy dream to me.Not every day is a good day for me yet I look for the good in everyday.

So basically, I have been hoping any praying that everything will fall in place, if not today then some other day.

Here are a list of things that I have realised and been sticking to since the beginning of this year.

  1. Not everyone has the best interest in heart for you : Yes, You heard it right, not every people you come across in your journey has the best feelings for you. People are complex and not getting too comfortable to them without knowing them deeply can save you from heartbreaks and negative emotion. I believe and time and again I have applying it in my life that not everyone deserves a piece of you.
  2. Money comes first : Earlier, I used to believe back in my naive days that money doesn’t bring you happiness but time and again I have realised that money is the source of all happiness. When you are financially stable and secured (especially for girls) , respect, power and admiration comes naturally to you. Learn to save and not waste your money in pleasing people who don’t even appreciate you.
  3. Stay away from Gossipers: Not everyone is the same, some people like indulging themselves in juicy gossips which I personally feel is a waste of time. Discussing people, their choices, their lifestyles, is a total disaster because we ourselves know that we are not perfect rather indulge yourself in cultivating a better version of yourself.
  4. If you’re not ready for a relationship don’t force one: I know that dating in 2025 is equivalent to fishing in the ocean where you get lots of fish of different varieties and colour but you have no idea which ones are poisonous. The perfect person will come to you at the right time, in the mean time practice self love.
  5. Read atleast 10 pages of book everyday: Reading is therapeutic. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I like to pick my books and relax. Not only does reading help you in garnering knowledge about different topics but you get to increase your vocabulary too.

I’m looking forward to a fruitful March with the same old me but yet a new me in the way that I perceive things and being optimistic in every negative situation.

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Happiness starts with me and I choose it daily.

With love

–Senorita 💕

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, happiness, lifestyle,hope

Hey Jan!

Hello everyone!

We have already stepped in the year 2025 and 13 days have already passed by since then.

Last year ended on a melancholic note since the Jeju airline crash and this year Los Angeles got burned down with the wildfires.

My deep condolences and prayers to everyone who lost their loved ones and home in the process.

I hope the rest of 2025 would be a good one.I really pray that each and everyone of us would be able to enjoy the coming days with peace and love and lots of gratitude.

Also, there are a handful of things that I’m intending to do on the rest of January.

1.Being Grateful: I always emphasise on the fact that a grateful heart is a source for endless miracle. Be grateful for what you have and look forward to beautiful things coming your way.Be grateful for the small things in your life.We are fortunate enough to experience all these basic things which lots of people don’t have access to.

2.Clean your spaces: keep your spaces clean.Donate clothes which you no longer feel like wearing. Throw away things that you no longer use.Keeping your spaces clean and tidy sets the mood for the day and regulates positivity in you.

3.Practice mindfulness: A healthy mind is the key to achieving and manifesting all that you desire. Reflect on the day and restart each day on a positive tone. Read books, take a walk,spend time with nature, water your plants and flowers, grow new crops,write on your journals, listen to spiritual chants.Don’t let intrusive thoughts discourage you for what you’re already capable of doing.

4. Detox from endless scrolling: Yes, we have posted and scrolled throughout this week, keeping updated with somebody’s Christmas and New Year celebrations and another’s Bride to be and Baby showers.Not to forget all those trends on reels and somebody promoting and criticising the other.I think I personally enjoy my alone time when I can dedicate some time to myself other than endless scrolling.I think taking some time away from social media promotes positivity in your life.

5. Going out less: when it comes to going out and having fun, I’m no less that anyone.I have now understood the value of being exclusive and not being too available and ready for anyone.The less you show up in crowds the more you feel respected.let people value and look forward to your presence rather than criticising you in your absence.

Me back in 2019!

Also I’m trying to really follow and practice what I preach. I’m looking forward to having betters days ahead.

“If you change the way you look at things,the things you look at change.”

-with love

–Senorita 💕

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, happiness, lifestyle,hope, Spirituality

MAY YOUR MAY BE MAZING!!

Hello everyone! How’s it going? We’ve already made it to the 5th month of the year.

It’s Taurus season here and it’s time to reflect upon many things that you’ve been ignoring for a long time.

It’s time to ground yourself and start reciprocating your energy to the things that really matter.

Remember energy flows where your attention goes. Not everything in life needs a reaction, sometimes things are meant to leave the way it is so that you refrain yourself from being overly attached to the outcomes.Embrace your endings and beginnings and in the process you will know exactly why things never worked out for you.

Believe in the fact that you are good the way you are, despite some shadow self that you have you are doing amazing the way you are.Do things that align with your highest self, do good expect nothing in return.Be kind but not conceited, be kind but not stupid.You are the greatest project you can work on and make your mental, emotional and physical health your priority. If you feel like anything or anyone isn’t adding value to your life. It’s time for you to reflect on yourself and ask whether you should hold on to them or not. Make your inner peace a priority. When you love yourself fully you will realise that you are worth so many things in life.

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Don’t worry about how and when just trust the process. If you become better both inside and out you’ll start to see how better things start unfolding in your life because you now know how to distance yourself from things that no longer serve you and how to hold on to things that are truly meant for your highest good.

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“ Energy flows, where attention goes.”

-with love

–Senorita 🤍

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, happiness, lifestyle,hope, Spirituality

For my ladies!

Hello guys! I’m back again with a new blog post today! Things have been very challenging and hectic in the past few weeks for me but I’m trying to cope up with them one step at a time.

I hope you guys are doing well. Long winter days are finally over now and I’m loving the feeling of basking in the early March sunshine.

I have targeted my today’s blog post for all my beautiful women out there who are wearing their crowns no matter what life throws at them.

It’s okay to be in touch with your masculinity but when things get hard one should get in touch with your femininity to rediscover yourself.

Firstly, take care of yourself: Take time out for yourself , indulge on things that you love doing, take care of your skin, paint your nails, buy yourself flowers, read the book that you wanted to for a long time, go for a shopping spree, drink that coffee, take a nap, listen to your favourite music, watch that drama. Your mental and physical health matters.

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Secondly, dress up for yourself: You have nobody to impress other than you. Everyday is a new beginning for you, indulge on timeless wardrobes. Look good for yourself, if you dress better your confidence will ooze out. Wear your favourite perfume, do your hair, wear your makeup and you’re all set to go.

Some me time

Thirdly, be yourself: Don’t hesitate to be your authentic self with people. People who genuinely care for you will accept you the way you are. Learn to trust the right people.Be kind and gentle to yourself and others. It’s okay to be vulnerable with people you feel comfortable with.

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Lastly, Learn to let go: Life is a book with a new chapter ready for you unless you’re willing to flip the pages. Learn to flow with life. Don’t try to control things, don’t dwell in the past, remember you can never find someone like you.Always remember that better things are coming your way. Focus on yourself and your well being and be addicted to bettering yourself every day.

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-with love

Senorita 🤍

“When you become better, you attract better”!

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, happiness, lifestyle,hope, Spirituality

Don’t chase! Attract!!

Hey everyone how’s it going? Hope everything is fine on your end. It’s Valentine’s Day today! Love is in the air!!

I feel so happy for the ones who are already in a healthy and loving relationships and I wish that it remains the same.

For my singles out there, don’t be sad, it’s rather better to be single than being in an unhappy and unhealthy relationship.

Imagine you want something very badly that you constantly wait for it and desperately pray that it happens but at the end you don’t get it! You’ll feel bad right? So instead rather than putting your energy into it just let it flow. Remember that only the highest things meant for you will come to you. So if you want something just ask for it and come to you naturally.

Everything has it’s own course of time whether be it money, fame, love, peace or stability. Everything happens at the right place and the right time.

In the mean time focus on things that make you happy. Take time out for yourself, look after your needs, your goals, your happiness.

Remember you will never find someone like you no matter how hard you try. People will only meet you halfway. You are your truest self and no one can be you.

Fill your mind with positive thoughts and let good things come to you rather than chasing after it.

Some me time…

With love

– Senorita ❤️

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, happiness, lifestyle,hope, Spirituality

2024 In !!

Hey everyone! How’s it going? I hope 2024 is treating you well. January is almost over with just few days left for the next month.

Did you guys make any new year resolution? Well, for me I didn’t make any this year. But I did make a list of things that I’m looking forward to achieving this year. I hope this serves you as a reminder to let go of things that no longer serve you and look forward towards better things.

2024 In:

1. Meditation: Well, you can only stay healthy and strong once you feed your brain with positivity. Meditation is the key factor to enhancing your subconscious as well as conscious mind. Just close your eyes for few minutes and try to put your brain to rest . You can chant any ancient religious mantras or imagine yourself in your highest form of self. Just practice it for 21 days and watch yourself transform.

2. Working out: Exercising and hitting the gym has never hurt anyone. Do you want a shredded pack for yourself or have been thinking about doing Pilates? This is your cue to start acting on those. Regular exercise releases oxytocin which in turn will help you feel less stressed and relaxed.

3. Setting Healthy Boundaries: It is very important for one to allow whom you let or don’t let in your personal space. As we all know that your vibe attracts the tribe. Once we understand the power of sharing your energy with those who deserve it, everything changes.

4. Not chasing meaningless relationships:

You don’t chase, you attract and whatever is meant for you will always find you no matter how long it takes. Rather than chasing a person or trying to save a relationship, work on yourself, dwell on things you enjoy the most. Let life play it’s magic on you.

5. Doing something creative: It’s 2024 and you’ve not discovered your creative side? Well it’s time for you to vlog, blog, make reels, open a YouTube channel and share your creativity and experiences with the people. Social media is the best platform for showcasing your hidden potential.

6. Start a side hustle: Yes, an extra source of income has never hurt anyone. Do something productive for yourself so that you can earn some extra cash for yourself. Open up an online business, start affiliate marketing, start collaborating on Instagram. You can do it now.

7. Start journaling: keep a notebook or a diary where you write down your dreams and fears and write about how are you achieving or overcoming it. It’s a great way to boost your day with positivity.

8. Party when necessary: Of course, partying is fun every weekend. The atmosphere in the clubs with people celebrating their life looks tempting but do you think it’s worth it? What are you celebrating? There has to be a certain occasion to celebrate. Endless consumption of alcohol and cigarettes are not healthy.Life is much more than partying every weekend.

These are all the things that I can think of right now. I hope it will be worth putting them to practice. Wishing you all the luck for the rest of the year!

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With love

– Senorita 🤍