Tag: happiness

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That don’t kill you make you stronger!

Hello everyone! We’ve drawn towards the end of January 2026! Time just seems to fly by so quickly. We’re now stepping into the year of fire Horse as steadily as possible.

There’s still few days left for the year of the Snake to end and we’ll it’s teaching us to shed our old layers and fully let go of the older versions of ourselves.I’m excited for the new month to start as I’m looking forward towards the fiery and spontaneous months ahead.

Routine bores me a lot. I’m never the type to dwell on the same things for a long time. I like changes, I like uncertainty, I like vagueness. No matter whatever is there for me in the future, I for certain know that I’ll enjoy every moment of it.

Time has taught me resilience and patience.It has taught me that every thing comes naturally to you when it’s the right time.Nothing can be forced out of life. All you’ve got to do is keep growing and learning so that when the things you’ve always wanted comes to you , you know it’s value and embrace it wholeheartedly.

We can never erase or change our pasts , yes, sometimes it haunts you, makes you toss and turn the whole night, keeps on knocking you when you think you’ve moved on and yes, sometimes our chests become so tight that we can hardly breathe. Still, we look towards a happy ending and a bright day and remind ourselves that everything shall pass.There are things that are unknown to us, there are people out there waiting to cross our paths , there are things that will come our way when we least expect it happen, there are places yet left for us to visit and make beautiful memories.

These little things keep me going when I feel like the going is getting tough for me also recently, the internet is flooded with videos of an emperor penguin leaving it’s group and venturing towards the mountains in Antarctica and people have been widely debating it’s choice some citing him as a nihilist penguin but for me I feel he’s seeking for something more profound ,I feel empathy and sadness watching the penguin walk away and casting the final glance back to his safety and comfort knowing that he’ll be going forever with no intention of coming back.He’s not sure what lies ahead in his path and still chose to take that one decision that changed his life forever.

I’m very impressed and fascinated by this act of an animal and yet we are humans with full control over our minds and actions and yet we dread to take that leap of faith, that different action, that road which is diverged into woods thinking that comfort and safety is all that matters to us. Life is beyond that, life is beyond materialism, life is beyond a simple man’s comprehension.There is so much beauty in knowing about the unknown, embracing calmness in chaos, knowing that something worth your time and energy is out there somewhere when you decide to take that one action that you always wanted to take.

As February comes I’m looking forward to the unknown, trying to take actions towards my goal, trying to step a little out of my comfort zone, trying to be a bit kinder, a little wiser and stronger because what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!

With love

–Senorita 💕

Some me time💕

Be the penguin 🐧 picture source: Google
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Shed the old skin this October!

Hey everyone! Happy holidays!!

It’s festive season here in India and there’s joy and laughter all around. I can’t believe we’ve made it to October so soon.This is my favourite season of the year. It’s officially fall/autumn season here.

I love the warm sun rays and the shedding trees preparing for new leaves for the spring next year.I love the hustle and bustle of people around buying new clothes and accessories for the festive season. It’s all so nice and makes me feel good about the month.

I just turned 30 this September and I’m no longer in my 20s.🥹Earlier, I used to think that turning 30 would be dreadful and I would marry someone and start my own family by the time I reached 30, but, here I am still figuring about my life in my 30, still enjoying my single hood and embracing my independence.

I guess life has all things planned for us.All we need to do is be patient and wait for things to happen at the right time.

Since, it’s already the 10th month of the year 2025, it’s still not too late to do things that you wanted to do in the beginning of the year.

Here are the list of things that I’m looking forward to in the month of October:

  1. Embracing independence and learning to take care of my body and mind.
  2. Letting go of lifestyle and habits that drain me and my pocket.
  3. Saving at least 20% of my monthly income for long term plan and other 10% for my emergency fund.
  4. Investing on assets like Gold over liabilities like an expensive accessory.
  5. Going out only when I feel like it and not because somebody wants me there.
  6. Avoiding too much of scrolling on internet and instead read books that motivates me.
  7. Practising gratitude everyday and journaling whenever I feel like it.
  8. Deep cleaning my private and work spaces every once in a week and practice aura cleansing rituals.
  9. Not letting things affect me and learning to see positively in overwhelming situations.
  10. Last but not the least, I need to change my sleeping pattern, I’m looking forward to getting up early and going to bed early.

So, I’m basically looking towards the brighter side of life inculcating positive rituals and practices in my day to day life.

I really want to shed my old skin this October onwards and pave ways for a better life these coming months.

Wishing everyone a Happy Dussehra and Diwali in advance!

Me on my birthday 🎉

With love

–Senorita 💕

Posted on in #lifegoals#lifehacks, August

All out or nothing this August!

Hey everyone! The monsoon season is here! It’s the 8th month of the year.Things have finally shifted for me. I hope that the year ends well for everyone.

We only have 4 months left for 2025 to end! It’s time we get serious about things.You no longer have time for procrastination and delays. It’s all out or nothing now!

Set aside your setbacks and it’s time for a comeback now!

Here are the few things that I have decided to follow this August:

1.No more toxicity in my life: I’ve come to terms with the phrase that meet people as much as they meet you. I’m completely eliminating any form of toxicity from my life. I no longer want to sit in the table with people who talk about people. I no longer wanna engage with things which don’t help me grow. I no longer want to entertain negativity in any form in my life. I’m really done with people pleasing. I will not hesitate to cut off people and situation who don’t reciprocate my energy and kindness.

2.Finding myself again: These past few months were really difficult for me. I was drowned in endless waves of solitude and sadness pondering upon the choices I’ve made in my life. Running around sea of people who had no good intentions with me, who crushed me, had illusions about me. Now, I want to let go of every negativity. I wanna drop off those burdens from my life.I wanna seek gratitude and peace.

3. Being selective about my energy: Now, all these things matter because previously I was investing my energy and effort into wrong people and things.I no longer wish to associate myself with habitual liars and master manipulators. One who throw dirt on your name behind your back and act friendly in your face. One who comes to you for convenience.

4. Work on myself: Also, all the things that occurred to me happened because I was operating from a point of low frequency which made me attract things and people from the same low vibrational energy. Everything starts and ends with me.If I heal and grow from within, then the enemy outside can do me no harm. I myself have to work on self and eliminate those deep rooted limitations within me.

5. Be a better person everyday: As already mentioned before I need to be a better person and change my thoughts and mindset for me to get a better outcome. I need to forgive and let go of things that I had no control over, I need to inculcate good and positive habits on me so that I no longer deviate from my path of positivity. Also, it’s not my duty to change people and their thoughts because I am not what they think I am rather they are what they think I am.

With this I hope that one should understand that the answer lies within you. If you don’t like something have it in your system to say no! Let mystery be your new energy. Not everyone deserves your energy and time. Be selective, be choosy and be happy!

Some me time 💚💚

With love

–Senorita 💚

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Propaganda I’m not falling for this July!!

Hey everyone! It’s July here! We’re now on the other half of the year 2025!

These past six months have been quite tumultuous for me! With my emotions all over the place and my money draining out like water.

I’ve always tried to be a positive person in every situation and like to look at the brighter side of life but you know not everyday you have the energy or the mood to be happy and full of life.

Sometimes I like to visit my past and question about certain choices I made in life back when I was young and naive and like to think how things would unfold for me had I not made the choice to do so but you know that every choice and mistake you made on the past was exactly what you wanted at that time and crying over spilled milk is not gonna help me or take anywhere.

So, since life is so unpredictable and you never know what is gonna happen next, why fret about things that you don’t know now!

Anyways, I’ve made a list of propaganda that social media and other platforms tell you is the best for you yet you know that we’re not the same, and those things might not work you.

1.Being happy all the time: As I’ve already mentioned that we are human beings and it’s not possible for us to remain happy and positive all the time. Sometimes, we feel overwhelmed by certain things that we don’t know what step we should take next. We find ourselves locked in with thoughts and emotions and sometimes with guilt and sadness and fear and what not. Feeling sad is absolutely fine, it makes you go deeper within you and embracing your emotions and acting crazy or crying your eyes out sometimes make you feel better. We’re all humans with diverse range of emotions with in. So, sadness and loneliness make you want to be happy again and you find yourself looking for things to make you feel alive again like scrolling through funny videos, recalling those good memories when you laughed until you cried, that warm cup of tea after a very exhausting day, talking to your friends about the things that bother you will make you feel better.

2. Following every trend: You know when you walk down the street and everyone is wearing the same clothes, doing the same hairstyle, hopping on to buy the same thing just because it’s trending, visiting the same place because it’s hot now and may be you think it’s cool and will make you a part of the ‘it’ community, is just sad.By doing this you’re killing the original you and your uniqueness. Remember, how different and cool and unique you are. Embrace your originality, find your unique style and stick to that. Trends come and go, but style never fades.

3.Idolising someone too much: I can’t understand the concept behind idolising people to the extent that you walk and talk like them.I do know that we have our own celebrity or influencer crushes but no man, I would never ever try to be a clone of them. I love myself too much to be them.My clumsy side, my funny side, the way I talk and think, my style, my voice, my face, all these things make me and that’s who I am, I wouldn’t want to kill the real me to embody someone else’s persona or style.

4. Being overly nice: I think I was a people pleaser once, keeping their wants and needs ahead of mine.I always tried to bring a smile on their face knowing that it wasn’t best for me. Lots of times I’ve forsaken my convenience and tried to keep theirs. This time, I’m only meeting people halfway, I don’t hesitate in saying ‘no’ and maintaining my peace and dignity. I’ve taken time in clearing away people and situation in my life that no longer serves me. I’ve decided to not let my brain think about what if’s and could have’s, it’s just straight up now, you respect me I respect you, you belittle me and take me for granted I’m gone.

5.Believing everything I see on social media: I’m a woman and I see quotes and reels on social media where women and girls are saying things like a man has to have certain thousand dollars and sports car to marry them cause they’re high maintenance or where people are promoting infidelity and vulgarism through reels and posting thirst traps for likes and comments are saddening. Buying makeup just because someone on the reel said it’s great and hauling items and clothes because someone said the fabric is great and looks super cool on them, is utterly ridiculous. You need to know that they’re getting it for free for promotion and what looks good on them may not look good or suit you.Be mindful of people and pages you follow, what you see and hear and think is what you become.

I hope you’ll have a wonderful July ahead !

With love

–Senorita🍒

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3:33

Hello everyone! I’m back again with another blog post for the month of April 2025 and the time right now is 3:33 pm.

To be honest life after 2019 seems to be moving too fast for my mind to comprehend.

Everything is moving too fast and too quickly.2020 was almost 5 years away!

So many things have happened after 2020 not to mention the rise in economy.Everything seems too pricey and extravagant these days.A five hundred rupee note has become equivalent to a hundred rupee note.Where social media influencers and Tik Tokers are making good amount through their niche and regular people who are posting and sharing their contents are well you know at the same place where they used to be.( including me 😅)

Also, we are growing and learning at the same time.

Just yesterday evening I was reading the second instalment from the world wide best seller book from the author Rhonda Byrne’s “The Greatest secret”and I was deeply inspired by some of the Paragraphs from there and I would love to write about them.

Summary of my favourite lines from the book from Chapter 5:

  1. Your mind is not your brain: Of course, our minds don’t control us, we control our minds.It’s just a part of our body and we command it to use in however way we want. Therefore, it’s essential for us to think about good thoughts no matter if the situation is not in our favour.It has been mentioned in the book that thoughts are responsible for causing our feelings, and any type of negative thoughts contribute to us feeling low and not enough.
  2. Time is an illusion: Another paragraph which stuck to me is the fact that time is just an illusion and I have been saying that there’s no yesterday or tomorrow. There’s just today and the present.There’s no such thing as time , it was created by men to do certain chores throughout the day and rest at night.So, if we want our tomorrow to be fruitful, we should work on our present rather that visiting the glimpses of past.
  3. Observe your thought: We get emotional when our mind starts wandering and thinking about what if’s and could haves.We are hopeful thinking about the future and what it holds for us that is why we should learn to observe our thoughts and those thoughts which make you feel sad and despair should be replace with thoughts of gratitude and happiness.That is why as already mentioned in the book instead of getting lost in your thoughts we should start seeing them for what they are and take every thought into account and relieve and accept them for what they are rather than resisting them.

Therefore, inorder for us to live a meaningful life, we must learn to stop overthinking, what would X and Y think about me if I don’t do certain things on certain time, what would happen to me if I don’t achieve something in certain timeline. What would the society tell me if I do this and not that, all these things don’t matter in the journey of life.

When you’re somewhat 60 or 70 nobody cares about how you looked, how sad or broke you were,all that matters is how well you lived your life, how many great memories you created your way, what a hearty laugh you had when something funny happened,Hence, at the end overthinking kills your joy of staying in the present. Live your life to the fullest and stop worrying about tomorrow and enjoy your present.

You’re never going to be this young or healthy again, You’re never getting back your present moment again make awareness your go to habit and learn to bring yourself back to happiness and present when you find yourself drowning in your misery of negative thoughts.

The image displayed here has been taken by me

“You don’t have to eliminate your mind or go to war with your mind. Awareness is your way out of the turmoil of the mind”.

– Rhonda Byrne

With love

–Senorita 🤍

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Last Sunday!

Hello everyone !

It’s the last Sunday of February! How quickly the time flies by!

To be honest 2025 has been a quiet year for me.Everything seems to have been serene and low key for me.May be it’s the realisation that I’m not 20 anymore or the nostalgic flashbacks from the previous years.

Time seems have escalated quickly since 2019. Parts of me long for the things that now seems like a long forgotten dream.

And everything seems like a hazy dream to me.Not every day is a good day for me yet I look for the good in everyday.

So basically, I have been hoping any praying that everything will fall in place, if not today then some other day.

Here are a list of things that I have realised and been sticking to since the beginning of this year.

  1. Not everyone has the best interest in heart for you : Yes, You heard it right, not every people you come across in your journey has the best feelings for you. People are complex and not getting too comfortable to them without knowing them deeply can save you from heartbreaks and negative emotion. I believe and time and again I have applying it in my life that not everyone deserves a piece of you.
  2. Money comes first : Earlier, I used to believe back in my naive days that money doesn’t bring you happiness but time and again I have realised that money is the source of all happiness. When you are financially stable and secured (especially for girls) , respect, power and admiration comes naturally to you. Learn to save and not waste your money in pleasing people who don’t even appreciate you.
  3. Stay away from Gossipers: Not everyone is the same, some people like indulging themselves in juicy gossips which I personally feel is a waste of time. Discussing people, their choices, their lifestyles, is a total disaster because we ourselves know that we are not perfect rather indulge yourself in cultivating a better version of yourself.
  4. If you’re not ready for a relationship don’t force one: I know that dating in 2025 is equivalent to fishing in the ocean where you get lots of fish of different varieties and colour but you have no idea which ones are poisonous. The perfect person will come to you at the right time, in the mean time practice self love.
  5. Read atleast 10 pages of book everyday: Reading is therapeutic. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I like to pick my books and relax. Not only does reading help you in garnering knowledge about different topics but you get to increase your vocabulary too.

I’m looking forward to a fruitful March with the same old me but yet a new me in the way that I perceive things and being optimistic in every negative situation.

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Happiness starts with me and I choose it daily.

With love

–Senorita 💕

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2 days to 2025!!!

Hello everyone!

Wishing you all a very happy holidays and New Year 2025 in advance!

There’s just 2 freaking days left for 2024 to end! I can’t comprehend the fact that we have already completed 364 days out of 366 days this year! ( yeah, 2024 is a leap year)

This year was not an easy one. Like every year, I have been trying to look forward for good days despite of the bad ones. Lots of things have changed already and I guess it’s for the better. Also, the fact that I’ll be turning freaking 30 next year! 🥹

I always look forward to another year with hope that it’s going to be great one and every year my faith in myself becomes stronger to face any type of adversity that are bound to come my way.

In 2024 I learnt a little and grew up a lot.

Here are basically the list of things that I’m looking forward to in 2025 :

  1. Learning to be frugal: Time and again I have been trying to inculcate this habit in my day to day life. Buy things that you really need and not what you want.
  2. Listening to my heart: Every now and then I am trying more to do things with my heart and trying to understand my emotions better. I’m learning to be more kind and generous towards myself and others.
  3. Growing up more: Maturity doesn’t happen over age. You have to learn your lessons in order to grow and heal. What seemed like an idea of fun now seems bland and I would choose a self pampered Saturday with books and movies over a Saturday night out.
  4. Taking out time for myself: I am now done with people pleasing over my happiness and now I wouldn’t hesitate to cut off anything and anyone that causes me stress over sleep.I have come to realise that happiness starts with you.
  5. Being Grateful: I am grateful for every setbacks and lessons that I’ve learnt till now and happy that it has moulded me into the women that I am today. I wouldn’t say that I’m perfect but I can definitely say that I am strong.

I can’t wait to start my 2025 with love, joy, happiness and peace and I pray that everyone of you find the same.

Some me time ✌🏻

“It’s never too late to be what you might have been”.

-with love

Senorita🤍

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The next and next!

Hello everyone!

How’s it going? I hope everyone is doing well . We’re already drawing towards the end of Cancer season this year. No wonder we have been contemplating a lot about our lives and choices.

It’s okay not to be okay sometimes and it’s okay to question your belief system always.

Not everyday is a happy one and not everyday is a gloomy one.

I read somewhere that life is all about choices. Choices you make in your day to day lives make a big difference.

But how do you know if it’s the right choice?

Have you ever found yourself getting drained and not feeling well? Well, it’s just your body and your surroundings tell you that you need to recharge yourself.

It’s alright to take a break sometimes from all your responsibilities, your choices, your lifestyles, just take a chill pill and relax.

When you really need to find yourself, you need to let your emotions take hold of you, no discussions, no disturbances, just go deep within yourself and really feel the intensity of your emotions.

Escaping from your reality sometime makes you embrace it.Sit down, breathe, drink your coffee, drink your water, write on your journals, take a walk, take a retreat to nature, sit down near water bodies, meditate, reflect on yourself, take a vacation, de clutter your space,do what makes you feel happy.

Being overwhelmed is alright, you don’t know where you are going, what you are doing? But when you don’t experience these things in life, then you’ll never grow !

Growing up takes time. Maturity doesn’t come knocking on your door.You grow through what you go through!

In the mean time just figure yourself out. No matter what people say about you, you can never please them.Do your thing, have faith on yourself, Not everything is constant.

Remember not everybody and everything needs your attention or energy.Let them be.

In the meantime take care of yourself, drink your water, have your meal, talk to your near ones, life is short, we are mortals not immortals, one day all you take with you are your memories and experiences.

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“If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way”.

With love

–Senorita 💚