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May all be good!

Hello everyone!

Happy Sunday! I’m back again with prayers and intentions for the month of May 2025.

We’ve already covered the past 4 months with determination and courage and looking forward towards the rest of the months for this year.

May is I must say a laid back month for me.All the hassles of the previous months have been completed whether in work or personal life. Though, a little tension arose with in my country India with the neighbouring country Pakistan, eventually it got settled.Our world can’t handle another war with innocent lives at stake.With so many events happening around the world with Met Gala 2025 and a new Pope in the Vatican City. 2025 is all headed towards a great start.

Amidst this I have been working towards myself adopting things and habit which are beneficial for me and eliminating things and habits which will take me nowhere.

Here are a list of things that I’ve been practising for this month:

1.Enjoying my own company: I’ve been labelled as a social butterfly by people I know, always saying ‘yes’ to events and night outs without thinking twice.I’ve scattered my energy in the process of meeting ‘new’ people and going to new and happening ‘places’.Now, when I sit back and realise there are moments when I think about things I shouldn’t have done or places I shouldn’t have been to.I’ve started to enjoy my own company indulging on hobbies like writing, journaling, reading, etc which I really do enjoy. I haven’t completely left my fun side but I’m now mindful of my time and days when I really feel like going out and having fun.

2. Cleaning my personal and work space:Now, I frequently take the opportunity to declutter my working space and clean my personal space whenever I have time. I don’t hesitate donating clothes which no longer fit me or throwing away away clothes and bags which are no good to use.I clean my makeup bags every now and then and discard blenders or tubes of cream which are too old to be used.

3. No longer indulging on impulsive buying: Earlier, I used to buy clothes and cosmetics even when I didn’t need them. I used to scroll on various online sites and place orders when certain products used to be on sale, thinking I needed them, but now, I only buy things when I really need them and not when I want them.I’ve started segregating between my needs and wants and this has helped me to save my money which I was mindlessly spending on things which I didn’t really need.

4. Started reading again: I’ve started reading at least 5-10 pages of self help books at night before going to bed. This has helped me to increase my knowledge on so many things and has helped me to be positive and eliminate any limiting beliefs. I’ve started practising meditation, my mind is now no longer cluttered with unwanted thoughts all day, I try to be aware of anything that brings me down and trying to restore peace and positivity in my life.

5. Being Grateful for everything: I guess this I’ve been preaching for a long time. No matter where I am or what I’m doing I take a moment to thank the Universe or any higher power for everything. I practice the technique of Hoponopono everyday before closing my eyes and it has immensely helped me to overcome adversities.

In conclusion, I’m trying to be a better person everyday and things that used to bother me a year ago, no longer hurts me now. I’ve come to a realisation that Everything in life has a purpose and everything happens for a reason and instead of saying why me?I’ve started saying try me !

Some me time

“When you replace why me with what is it teaching me, everything changes.

With love

–Senorita 🤍

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3:33

Hello everyone! I’m back again with another blog post for the month of April 2025 and the time right now is 3:33 pm.

To be honest life after 2019 seems to be moving too fast for my mind to comprehend.

Everything is moving too fast and too quickly.2020 was almost 5 years away!

So many things have happened after 2020 not to mention the rise in economy.Everything seems too pricey and extravagant these days.A five hundred rupee note has become equivalent to a hundred rupee note.Where social media influencers and Tik Tokers are making good amount through their niche and regular people who are posting and sharing their contents are well you know at the same place where they used to be.( including me 😅)

Also, we are growing and learning at the same time.

Just yesterday evening I was reading the second instalment from the world wide best seller book from the author Rhonda Byrne’s “The Greatest secret”and I was deeply inspired by some of the Paragraphs from there and I would love to write about them.

Summary of my favourite lines from the book from Chapter 5:

  1. Your mind is not your brain: Of course, our minds don’t control us, we control our minds.It’s just a part of our body and we command it to use in however way we want. Therefore, it’s essential for us to think about good thoughts no matter if the situation is not in our favour.It has been mentioned in the book that thoughts are responsible for causing our feelings, and any type of negative thoughts contribute to us feeling low and not enough.
  2. Time is an illusion: Another paragraph which stuck to me is the fact that time is just an illusion and I have been saying that there’s no yesterday or tomorrow. There’s just today and the present.There’s no such thing as time , it was created by men to do certain chores throughout the day and rest at night.So, if we want our tomorrow to be fruitful, we should work on our present rather that visiting the glimpses of past.
  3. Observe your thought: We get emotional when our mind starts wandering and thinking about what if’s and could haves.We are hopeful thinking about the future and what it holds for us that is why we should learn to observe our thoughts and those thoughts which make you feel sad and despair should be replace with thoughts of gratitude and happiness.That is why as already mentioned in the book instead of getting lost in your thoughts we should start seeing them for what they are and take every thought into account and relieve and accept them for what they are rather than resisting them.

Therefore, inorder for us to live a meaningful life, we must learn to stop overthinking, what would X and Y think about me if I don’t do certain things on certain time, what would happen to me if I don’t achieve something in certain timeline. What would the society tell me if I do this and not that, all these things don’t matter in the journey of life.

When you’re somewhat 60 or 70 nobody cares about how you looked, how sad or broke you were,all that matters is how well you lived your life, how many great memories you created your way, what a hearty laugh you had when something funny happened,Hence, at the end overthinking kills your joy of staying in the present. Live your life to the fullest and stop worrying about tomorrow and enjoy your present.

You’re never going to be this young or healthy again, You’re never getting back your present moment again make awareness your go to habit and learn to bring yourself back to happiness and present when you find yourself drowning in your misery of negative thoughts.

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“You don’t have to eliminate your mind or go to war with your mind. Awareness is your way out of the turmoil of the mind”.

– Rhonda Byrne

With love

–Senorita 🤍

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Pisces season

Hey everyone!

I’m back with another blog post today.

It’s already Pisces season here ♓️.3 months have already passed by with a blink of an eye.I’m flabbergasted as to see how quickly the months are passing by.

Here are some the intentions that I have been trying to follow this month.

1.Live for yourself: A little pampering can never hurt anyone.You deserve a break from your monotonous routine every now and then.Sometimes life can be overwhelming.A get together with your near and dear ones, a little bit of fun and spending quality times can give you a renewed sense of peace.

2. Not everything has to be rigid: Learn to flow with life. Embrace every moment .Live in the moment.Sometimes letting go and living a little is all that counts.Never say never.Gone days will never come back.

3. Splurge on yourself: Pamper yourself with things that you have longed for.Buy that perfume, wear that dress, go on trips, eat that food that you’re craving, go out and take pictures. Life is too short and you never know what’s gonna happen next so, do it now.

4. Embrace changes: Change is the only thing constant and it is quintessential. Make small changes in your life, take a different route to work, read a different genre of book, if you’re into pop switch to country songs,if you like tea switch to coffee, if you’re a night owl change into an early bird.I feel a little bit of change can change your perspective on various things

At last we all are human beings who are living our lives for the first time on this planet and we have different lives.What I’m going through, you might have never gone through and what you have been through, I might never be able to experience it.

So live a little and laugh a lot.

Some me time

With love

–Senorita 💙

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Last Sunday!

Hello everyone !

It’s the last Sunday of February! How quickly the time flies by!

To be honest 2025 has been a quiet year for me.Everything seems to have been serene and low key for me.May be it’s the realisation that I’m not 20 anymore or the nostalgic flashbacks from the previous years.

Time seems have escalated quickly since 2019. Parts of me long for the things that now seems like a long forgotten dream.

And everything seems like a hazy dream to me.Not every day is a good day for me yet I look for the good in everyday.

So basically, I have been hoping any praying that everything will fall in place, if not today then some other day.

Here are a list of things that I have realised and been sticking to since the beginning of this year.

  1. Not everyone has the best interest in heart for you : Yes, You heard it right, not every people you come across in your journey has the best feelings for you. People are complex and not getting too comfortable to them without knowing them deeply can save you from heartbreaks and negative emotion. I believe and time and again I have applying it in my life that not everyone deserves a piece of you.
  2. Money comes first : Earlier, I used to believe back in my naive days that money doesn’t bring you happiness but time and again I have realised that money is the source of all happiness. When you are financially stable and secured (especially for girls) , respect, power and admiration comes naturally to you. Learn to save and not waste your money in pleasing people who don’t even appreciate you.
  3. Stay away from Gossipers: Not everyone is the same, some people like indulging themselves in juicy gossips which I personally feel is a waste of time. Discussing people, their choices, their lifestyles, is a total disaster because we ourselves know that we are not perfect rather indulge yourself in cultivating a better version of yourself.
  4. If you’re not ready for a relationship don’t force one: I know that dating in 2025 is equivalent to fishing in the ocean where you get lots of fish of different varieties and colour but you have no idea which ones are poisonous. The perfect person will come to you at the right time, in the mean time practice self love.
  5. Read atleast 10 pages of book everyday: Reading is therapeutic. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I like to pick my books and relax. Not only does reading help you in garnering knowledge about different topics but you get to increase your vocabulary too.

I’m looking forward to a fruitful March with the same old me but yet a new me in the way that I perceive things and being optimistic in every negative situation.

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Happiness starts with me and I choose it daily.

With love

–Senorita 💕

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Hey Jan!

Hello everyone!

We have already stepped in the year 2025 and 13 days have already passed by since then.

Last year ended on a melancholic note since the Jeju airline crash and this year Los Angeles got burned down with the wildfires.

My deep condolences and prayers to everyone who lost their loved ones and home in the process.

I hope the rest of 2025 would be a good one.I really pray that each and everyone of us would be able to enjoy the coming days with peace and love and lots of gratitude.

Also, there are a handful of things that I’m intending to do on the rest of January.

1.Being Grateful: I always emphasise on the fact that a grateful heart is a source for endless miracle. Be grateful for what you have and look forward to beautiful things coming your way.Be grateful for the small things in your life.We are fortunate enough to experience all these basic things which lots of people don’t have access to.

2.Clean your spaces: keep your spaces clean.Donate clothes which you no longer feel like wearing. Throw away things that you no longer use.Keeping your spaces clean and tidy sets the mood for the day and regulates positivity in you.

3.Practice mindfulness: A healthy mind is the key to achieving and manifesting all that you desire. Reflect on the day and restart each day on a positive tone. Read books, take a walk,spend time with nature, water your plants and flowers, grow new crops,write on your journals, listen to spiritual chants.Don’t let intrusive thoughts discourage you for what you’re already capable of doing.

4. Detox from endless scrolling: Yes, we have posted and scrolled throughout this week, keeping updated with somebody’s Christmas and New Year celebrations and another’s Bride to be and Baby showers.Not to forget all those trends on reels and somebody promoting and criticising the other.I think I personally enjoy my alone time when I can dedicate some time to myself other than endless scrolling.I think taking some time away from social media promotes positivity in your life.

5. Going out less: when it comes to going out and having fun, I’m no less that anyone.I have now understood the value of being exclusive and not being too available and ready for anyone.The less you show up in crowds the more you feel respected.let people value and look forward to your presence rather than criticising you in your absence.

Me back in 2019!

Also I’m trying to really follow and practice what I preach. I’m looking forward to having betters days ahead.

“If you change the way you look at things,the things you look at change.”

-with love

–Senorita 💕

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2 days to 2025!!!

Hello everyone!

Wishing you all a very happy holidays and New Year 2025 in advance!

There’s just 2 freaking days left for 2024 to end! I can’t comprehend the fact that we have already completed 364 days out of 366 days this year! ( yeah, 2024 is a leap year)

This year was not an easy one. Like every year, I have been trying to look forward for good days despite of the bad ones. Lots of things have changed already and I guess it’s for the better. Also, the fact that I’ll be turning freaking 30 next year! 🥹

I always look forward to another year with hope that it’s going to be great one and every year my faith in myself becomes stronger to face any type of adversity that are bound to come my way.

In 2024 I learnt a little and grew up a lot.

Here are basically the list of things that I’m looking forward to in 2025 :

  1. Learning to be frugal: Time and again I have been trying to inculcate this habit in my day to day life. Buy things that you really need and not what you want.
  2. Listening to my heart: Every now and then I am trying more to do things with my heart and trying to understand my emotions better. I’m learning to be more kind and generous towards myself and others.
  3. Growing up more: Maturity doesn’t happen over age. You have to learn your lessons in order to grow and heal. What seemed like an idea of fun now seems bland and I would choose a self pampered Saturday with books and movies over a Saturday night out.
  4. Taking out time for myself: I am now done with people pleasing over my happiness and now I wouldn’t hesitate to cut off anything and anyone that causes me stress over sleep.I have come to realise that happiness starts with you.
  5. Being Grateful: I am grateful for every setbacks and lessons that I’ve learnt till now and happy that it has moulded me into the women that I am today. I wouldn’t say that I’m perfect but I can definitely say that I am strong.

I can’t wait to start my 2025 with love, joy, happiness and peace and I pray that everyone of you find the same.

Some me time ✌🏻

“It’s never too late to be what you might have been”.

-with love

Senorita🤍

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Ready for fall!

Hey folks! It’s October season. Fall is finally here. I can’t believe that we just have 3 months left for 2024 to end. With so many festivals lining up and Halloween and Christmas on the brink, 2024 will end up in the blink of an eye.

Let’s make October a fruitful and a meaningful month while embracing positivity and being optimistic for the unknown.

Things to do in October:

  1. Declutter : Get rid of unwanted things from your spaces. Throw away those old pair of shoes. Tidy your working space by getting rid of unwanted papers and old pens. Clean your living space. Add fresh flowers in your room. Buy new ornamental plants. Add some scented candles and perfume diffusers on your living space.
  2. Make a to do list: Grab your journal and make a list of things you want to look forward on October. Prepare yourself to stay disciplined in accomplishing your goals.
  3. Read a new book: Get yourself some new self help books or an enticing New Romantic novel to help you spend your cozy nights in the fall.Add some exciting collections of web toons or web novels on your Wattpad.
  4. Get yourself a makeover: Go for a new hairstyle or haircut this season. Get yourself a new manicure and pedicure in the shades of autumn. Buy new pairs of boots or a timeless wardrobe for the coming months.
  5. Stay optimistic: No matter what you’re going through learn to stay positive and look forward to good things in life.Stay grateful and be kind.A grateful heart is the source of endless miracles.
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“Gather and be grateful”.

With love

–Senorita 🤎

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It’s September baby!

Hey everyone!

It’s September here already!We are already in the Virgo season of the year.It’s time for being grounded and stable.2024 is almost nearing it’s end. Let’s start the 1st day of the month with a spoonful of positivity.

  1. Look back and thank yourself for how far you have come.
  2. Learn to live in the moment.
  3. Let go of unhealthy habits and unnecessary attachments.
  4. Earn well and spend wisely.
  5. Take sometime to retreat.
  6. Plan your month’s to do list.
  7. Prepare yourself for any kind of setbacks that come your way.
  8. Check your diet and stay hydrated.
  9. Cut off negativity from your life.
  10. De clutter your space and mind.
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I’m looking forward to the beautiful autumn months that follow, calm mornings with leaves all over the grounds, trees shedding their old leaves with a bit chilly yet warm sunsets in the evening.

“May your September be filled with love, blessings and healing.”

-with love

–Senorita 🩶

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MAY YOUR MAY BE MAZING!!

Hello everyone! How’s it going? We’ve already made it to the 5th month of the year.

It’s Taurus season here and it’s time to reflect upon many things that you’ve been ignoring for a long time.

It’s time to ground yourself and start reciprocating your energy to the things that really matter.

Remember energy flows where your attention goes. Not everything in life needs a reaction, sometimes things are meant to leave the way it is so that you refrain yourself from being overly attached to the outcomes.Embrace your endings and beginnings and in the process you will know exactly why things never worked out for you.

Believe in the fact that you are good the way you are, despite some shadow self that you have you are doing amazing the way you are.Do things that align with your highest self, do good expect nothing in return.Be kind but not conceited, be kind but not stupid.You are the greatest project you can work on and make your mental, emotional and physical health your priority. If you feel like anything or anyone isn’t adding value to your life. It’s time for you to reflect on yourself and ask whether you should hold on to them or not. Make your inner peace a priority. When you love yourself fully you will realise that you are worth so many things in life.

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Don’t worry about how and when just trust the process. If you become better both inside and out you’ll start to see how better things start unfolding in your life because you now know how to distance yourself from things that no longer serve you and how to hold on to things that are truly meant for your highest good.

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“ Energy flows, where attention goes.”

-with love

–Senorita 🤍

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Flow with it!

Hello everyone!! How’s life treating you? We’re still in Mercury retrograde and I bet things aren’t as easy as it used to be!

But whatever it is! Just go for it! You are worth more than this!

Have you ever wondered why life throws you one things after another? Do you sometimes wonder why you come across certain situations and people? Well, life has it’s own way of making things clear for you in order for you to become the best version of yourself.

You look at yourself five years from today and cherish every big and small wins you had.You met people, you got into situations you didn’t wanted to, you had ups and downs, yet here you are my friend, doing better than you were yesterday.

This is the only opportunity you have in life, so just go for it.Life is short, just yesterday it was 2019 and lo! Now, we’re already in the 4th month of 2024! How quickly the days and years pass by? Remember, you are now the youngest you’ll ever be. Do things from your heart and never expect anything in return. We know that expectations lead to disappointment.Be kind, be generous with your money and time, people will remember you for your kindness and generosity.

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Remember, how a river flows across great distance overcoming rough terrains to join the vast ocean.Life is the same, no matter how hard or difficult or challenging it is right now, no matter how lost or unfocused you are right now, you will find your solace one day.

Learn to flow with life, no rigidity, no solidity, just fluid, flowing on and on through pain and sadness, happiness and joy, love and hatred, highs and lows, until one fine day you meet your solace in the vast deep blue sea.

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“Flow is my natural state”.

With love

–Senorita 🤍