Endings & Beginnings!

Hey everyone! It’s Halloween season here!We’ve already made it to November! We just have one more month left for 2026 and I’m anticipating great things to come my way!

It was like January came and all the other months just faded away with a blink of an eye!I have been thinking why is everything moving too quickly? Days turn to weeks and weeks to months and months to years and here I am just a bit old but with still a very young heart! ❤️

Also, I just turned 30 this September! Yeah, I know too old and nope, I’m not married , haven’t found the one yet, and still learning and growing my way to adulthood.

I love the final months of the year because it’s when I can really analyse my previous months . I like to think about all the things that I’ve accomplished whether big or small and all the things that I’ve done impulsively. This makes me realise about so many things that I should be doing and shouldn’t be doing.

The one thing that I’m really proud of myself is the fact that I don’t let things affect me anymore. I’ve come to a point where I stop blaming people or things and rather look into myself and the parts of me that gave consent to that.

I’ve had my fair share of guilts towards the previous months of the year 2025 and how I wish I would have done things differently but here I’m in the 11th month realising that whatever happened was a part of my destiny and I learnt my lesson and dare not to repeat those things again.

There’s only one month left for 2025 to end and I’ve already mentally started to visualise my 2026 from this time onwards.

Here are the list of things I’m planning to do this November so that my final days of 2025 would turn out to be good.

1 Ending procrastination: I’m too lazy to even start a thing and before starting anything I love daydreaming about the pros and cons. I’ve decided to end my laziness right this month and actually step ahead towards what I’ve wanted to do for so long.

2. Beginning a side hustle: I’ve been trying to start a small business for so long but all on my head. This time I’m really going to give it a go. I don’t wanna start something just for my profit but something that can really uplift and motivate others.

3. Ending my frequent party girl days: I’ve stopped going to pubs and clubs every opportunity I got not because I don’t enjoy it but because I don’t want to be at all the places all the time. What I’ve learnt is privacy is power.People can’t spoil things that they don’t know about.I would rather spend my evenings with meaning conversations with people who actually have my back than getting dressed out and having fun for escapism.

4. Beginning mindful practices: I meditate and journal every other day because it helps me to calm down. I’ve started blogging because of the same reason. Writing makes me feel at ease.I take a second to be grateful for everything I have, for my body, my job, my health, my life , my family and remind myself what a wonderful thing is to be alive.

5. Ending repetitive cycles: Time and again I find myself stuck with the same kind of situation and tried to break free of it but barely managed. This time I’m ending the version of me who tolerated all the things and stand firm on my ground. I’ve been learning to make boundaries and stick with that. If I trace a faint sign of effortlessness from the other party I’m gone without a trace. Money management, time management, energy and frequency are the things that I’m working on.

Because at the end you attract what you are.

I truly hope that November the season of Scorpio ♏️ would bring great transformation into your life but only for the better. I wish you all could figure out what things need to end and what new beginnings need to start in your life.✨💕🫶🏻

Some me time 💕

-with love

Senorita 💕

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