Tag: hope

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Old or new?

Hello friends..How is it going? I hope you guys are doing well. It’s already November with only a few days left for Christmas and another year.

Can’t believe we are nearing the end of the year.2023 for me was challenging and I’m still fighting to keep me sane , juggling between work and personal life, fighting my demons, sometimes crying, sometimes laughing until my stomach hurts. Still It’s good..life is strange, life is weird but it still goes on.

Have you had a certain goal you wanted to accomplish this year? Yet, it didn’t go as you planned? Did life throw you into spiralling webs of troubles and obstacles which you hadn’t even thought about? Did you face heartbreaks and had endless miserable nights for the things you never asked for? Did you find yourself in uncomfortable situations despite you trying to avoid it?

Well, I’ve had fair share of these things and wondered WHY?

Why is the Universe throwing one things after the other when I just prayed for things to go in the right direction? Why is nothing working in my favour? Despite me trying to stay positive. Call it signs and synchronicities I happened to realise that when Something good and better is coming your way, God tests you to the level that sometimes you just want to give up and then boom! You get what you wanted.

This image displayed here is taken by me.

It’s just like clearing your path to pave way for something better.It’s for you to clear your vibration and for you to start vibrating in a higher frequency so that it matches your goal. Then, the universe starts removing people, situations, things, relationships, baggages from your life so that you can experience the Newness.

This Scorpion season is perfect for letting go of things that no longer serve you, transforming you into a better version of you, removing any form of uncertainty and limiting beliefs from your life.

So the question is are you willing to take the Universe take it course for the NEW or stay in the OLD?

Credit: YOUKOU

“God’s plan is better than your plan.”

-with love

Senorita 🤍

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The power of forgiveness

Hello everyone!!

I am back again today with another blog post! It’s autumn again..I love the gentle sunshine and the breezy evening at this time of the year.

They say October is a time of letting go, just like the trees shed their leaves every year just to get some new green ones in the spring next year.

In the past few months we have been through various tumultuous times yet, look at us now, we made it through! We have come this far and we can still go on.

Every time we scroll through various social platforms we see great beings preaching about forgiveness and learning to let go.

But have we actually tried to practice it yet?

We do often times forget the fact that each of us are unique individuals and we have both our light and shadow side to us.

Someone may perceive us bad or dark wherever others may think that we are good and innocent.

You see we all have different stories to tell people yet we all hear the same kinda stories from everyone. I bet everyone has gone through betrayal, failed promises, childhood traumas, dealt with narcissists, bad mortgage, debt, loss of someone dear, diseases, guilt, anger issues, etc and etc.

This shows that we are all same, going through the same emotions but yet we are different in how we respond to it.

God knows until when we will stop learning our lessons because each time something wrong or bad happens to you, they’re in fact teaching you lessons one after the other.

I have been a victim of endless repeated cycles in my life, dealing with the same kind of people, falling into the same pattern, until, recently I realised that there is indeed something wrong with me, and when I decided to ponder upon things that I have been through, I realised that my inner self was not quite healed and I have been inviting and attracting the same old kind of people, the same situations, the same kind of pattern into my life for the past many years.

So, when I got deeper into this I have come to know that forgiving yourself and the situation plays a vital role in how you live your life. When you truly forgive yourself for all the mistakes you did you will realise that those things made you stronger and so much wiser.

I have been coming across this quote very frequently these days

Your mind is a magnet, if you think of problems , you attract problems, if you think of blessings, you attract blessings, always cultivate positive thoughts and remain positive.

Source : Google

So, since we are what we think, then why don’t we think of the happy memories we shared with people rather than dwelling on the hurtful ones? Why don’t we feel grateful for all the times God provided for us and our family rather than complaining about not having enough? Why don’t we forgive and forget rather than carrying that mountain of guilt and anger on our shoulders?

Life is actually very simple but why do we always like to complicate it so much to the point that we have sleepless, restless nights and tormenting days.

Rather than complaining about the what if’s and could haves, why don’t we just let if flow….and just forgive and forget…

This image has been taken by me..

“Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today”.

With love

-Senorita 🤍

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The power of Gratitude

Hello friends!! I am back again today with a new blog post! Hope everyone is doing well. It’s September already and we’re nearing the end of the year again.September has always been my favourite month as it’s my birthday month and I love the fact that autumn is round the corner.

The beautiful sunsets with warm breezy evenings and so many festivals on the way. I hope that everything is working on your end. Though, my life is not always perfect but I am happy that I have one to live.

Do you ever just feel thankful for the mere fact that you’re alive? Do you just look up at the sky and feel how infinite it is? Do you love the smell of the earth after it rains? Do you sometimes stare at the hustling and bustling of people and vehicles and think why are they in a hurry?Do you just sometimes sit alone and ponder how Great the Almighty is?

This image has been taken by me

Well, I have a lot of things going on my head when I sit idle and a thought just occurred to me that Life is all about lessons and the choices we make. We go through so many ups and downs in our life and forget the fact that Life itself is a gift. There are so many people around the world who are fighting each second for their lives yet we who already have life in us and are wasting our time dwelling on things that don’t matter in the end.

Broken promises, failed accomplishments, betrayal, self sabotaging, limiting beliefs, toxicity, overthinking, procrastination etc and etc are all the things that remind us that we are stronger than this and we can overcome this.

Gratitude for small things like life, a beautiful day, your favourite ice- cream, your friends , your family, your pets, your home,a beautiful flower you see on your way, your favourite song, your favourite podcast, your body, just your entire being, can change the way you look towards your life.

Be thankful and grateful for the small things you have in your life and you will make way for bigger and better things that are yet to come into your life.

Me time 🤍🤍🤍🤍

If you’re having a rough time just remember that it is temporary and God is preparing something big for you. Just say “ thankyou”and move on to the next.

With love

–Senorita 🤍

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You are your true happiness

‘Happy’ the dictionary defines this word as the feeling or showing pleasure or contentment and ‘happiness’ is the state of being happy.

When we were kids, happiness was getting a new barbie or the latest hot wheels set or getting our favorite bar of those delicious chocolates. When we became teens, happiness was when our parents bought us the trendiest clothes in the market or when we found out that our crush likes us back. When we were in college happiness, was when our parents sent us enough money to splurge on various things and when we finally graduated with good grades.

And now, finally when we are in this stage of life, where did our happiness go?! Or let’s say we are happy now too but where did the true essence of being happy go?! Did we lose our happiness in the process of making others happy?

I know that every particular individual has a different perspective about happiness. For some happiness can simply be looking at the stars at night. For some happiness can be traveling around different places, for others it can simply come from shopping or for others of you it can come from spending time with your loved ones or just eating your hearts out can bring you happiness.

But, have you ever sat alone and thought about what really makes you happy? Have you ever asked yourself the question that what ever you are doing right now will make you fulfilled and content after 5 years? Have you looked back at your past and regretted it now? Have you told yourself that you would not make the same decisions you made ever again and you are still repeating the same cycle over again? Do you have dreams that you want to risk and think about it everyday yet you take no steps to fulfill it? Do you question yourself everyday and think about what you accomplished in all these years?

What I’m trying to say is that do things that make you happy and satisfied. Don’t try to please anyone just please yourselves. Yes, we do need people in our lives, we long to be loved and give love to others after all we are humans. Don’t do engineering if you are passionate about literature, don’t study medical if you love photography, don’t settle for simple honors if you’re born to stand out from the crowd. Just follow your heart and let it take you to places that you’ve dreamt of, meet people that you can learn from, explore the unknown. At the end, you are all that matters and not what people think about you. Remember, there is not gonna be a single person to accompany you to your afterlife journey when you die. You were born alone and you are gonna die alone, no matter how many people you have in life who loves you and cherishes you.

Happiness comes from within, if you are happy and satisfied with yourselves then, you can make others happy. If you’re not in your best version then, how can you expect others to be in their best ? You need not go to places, people and things to search for your happiness just peek in to your tiny feeble heart and you will find eternal joy within you.Just imagine how wonderful would it feel to tell your grandchildren after some good years of your life about the things you did and the leap of faith you risked that made you who you are today!

You are your light, don’t let anyone or anything to diminish your shine. You are perfect just the way you are. You are awesome.

Remember to always stay happy and smile.

-Senorita